The first is to communicate fairly with children and get real reasons from them; The second is that after we know the reason, don't worry about telling the children how to deal with this matter, but should analyze how everyone does it; Third, find someone or something that can make children feel passionate and do it with them. As parents. You can't lose your temper easily with children. Control your emotions. Children's teaching must make children have a good attitude, so as to communicate effectively with children better.

How to cultivate children's strong perseverance?

The first is to set goals, the second is to break down goals, and the third is to check the progress of goals in time and reward them. Parents must pay attention to the way of communication with their children when teaching them.

The first point is to check the progress of the target in time and give rewards. If every small step of the goal can be achieved, you may be only one step away from the ultimate goal. Continue to practice and you will be more confident. Once we can control the process well, our result is certain, only in this process.

As parents, we should give your children timely encouragement, just like climbing a wall. When the child is about to fall and give up, we should give him a push at the right time and tell him that there is no limit to human potential. After we achieve a goal, our belief in the future goal will become more and more firm, and our willpower will become more firm, so that our life will be more successful.

The second point is that we should learn how to set goals. For example, if we want to quit smoking and drinking or lose weight, we must first set goals, and each goal is related to the length of time. When setting a goal, you must set a goal and within what time range it must be completed. And then set a goal.

Third, break down the target. Many times the goal will be very big, and sometimes the goal will be very small, but in any case, when a goal comes out, we will dissolve it into small goals. For example, I told myself to lose 30 pounds, and you said that this goal is really one-sided. For example, I turn it into a small goal, losing a catty or two a week. After this goal is decomposed, it will be implemented and established.