In fact, have we ever thought that loving children is the instinct of all animals, and no one will strangle a child after birth, but what human beings should know more is how to educate children. If we don't educate our children well, they will become a hidden danger in society, which is tantamount to strangling them.
These three aspects are very important in the process of educating children. They are not used to the five spirits, do not help five people, and do not make five friends.
Not used to coquetry
I saw an example that made me feel terrible some time ago. A child is 33 years old. He is no longer a child, but he has no job and is unable to earn money to support himself. Every day, he drinks and walks with a group of friends in the street. When he got home, he just asked his mother to cook for him.
Once my mother was ill and didn't cook for him. The child actually stepped on her and asked her, then why did you give birth to me? Don't even give me food.
Not used to tempering
Many old people say that people will definitely have some temper in this life, but as parents, we should teach our children to lose their temper less. A truly capable person will expose his temper in front of his eyes and will not vent his temper on the closest person. Educate children from an early age to be strictly managed until they are 5 years old.
Not used to being stingy
I often see some stingy children, so I don't want to continue to associate with them. Later, it was found that these children are stingy because their parents are also stingy. Cheap children don't know how to share their own things, and when they see what they like, they will automatically possess other people's things.
Not used to resentment
Sadness is a terrible emotion. When people can't control their emotions, they will vent their grievances on others, which not only hurts others, but also hurts themselves.
Not used to sulking.
Sulking is also a very hurtful thing. People often keep their sulks in their hearts and have no way to vent. If they do this for a long time, they will get sick or even seriously ill. If there is anything, they should know how to vent and communicate.
Don't try to be brave
There is a limit to everything. If you are capable, you should help others. If you have no ability, don't help others. If you go beyond your own scope, don't help others by force. Otherwise, you will not only be unable to help others, but also complain about yourself.
Don't help cover it up
We often say that we are in the same boat, but some people have committed some things in life, so we must not hide or help.
Don't help money.
As the old saying goes, brothers settle accounts clearly. The same is true in life. When it comes to borrowing money or giving money, you should think carefully. Many times, people's hearts can't be measured by money. Good relationships are often destroyed by money.
Don't help illegal people.
There is a principle in everyone's heart. If you don't want to touch something or you must not touch it, then don't touch it.
Don't help people who don't appreciate it.
In life, some people are very ungrateful. Often, you pay a lot for them, but the other party takes it for granted. Instead of thanking you, they will drag you down.
Don't make friends with self-righteous people.
Some people in life always feel that they know everything, have the ability to look down on others like others, and are not suitable for making friends.
Don't aim too high
Some people always have very high goals and great abilities, but their actions are almost zero. Such people should not continue to associate with them.
Don't make trouble.
Some people have a particularly hot temper, just like a blank head. Such people always talk with their fists, which will bring a lot of trouble to the people around them. When they meet such people, they also stay away from them.
Don't be a negative person
In life, some people feel inferior or negative. They live in great pain. Don't have too much emotional packaging with such people, you will become inferior.
Don't make friends with liars.
Lying is one's weakness. Some people not only don't think this is a shortcoming, but lie. Being honest with such people will only hurt us more and more.
In short, if we tell our children about this 15 point in our life, they can try to avoid some injuries, and life will definitely encounter some accidents, but what we can do is to point out a relatively safe way for him.