Intergenerational education is common in China. Because the old people have more experience in life and raising children than the younger generation. At the same time, the old people's contribution to their babies can really give parents more time to work and reduce the pressure on young parents. However, the disadvantages of intergenerational education cannot be ignored. The background of grandparents' generation raising children is very different from that of their grandchildren today. If grandparents don't update the concept of family education, but stay on the original educational concept and consciousness, then there will be great problems in educating children. Usually, the older generation has a low level of education and it is difficult to work hard on their children's education. Moreover, people of the older generation tend to spoil their grandchildren, and it is easy to develop children's willful and spoiled bad temper.
In fact, the problem of intergenerational education is not "intergenerational", but family education concept and common sense. If you think that the old people take care of their children in the wrong way, parents can explain to the old people and demonstrate their own good methods. And find opportunities to talk to children privately and guide them to correct their habits. Doing so can avoid embarrassing the elderly face to face, prevent the elderly from losing their prestige, and enable their children to adopt correct methods to maintain a harmonious family atmosphere.
In short, although the elderly can take good care of their children's lives and give them spiritual comfort and companionship, intergenerational education cannot replace parental education. The significance of raising children by young parents lies not only in the growth of children, but also in their own growth. From raising a little life to raising a little life, parents' mentality and attitude will change, which can be said to be another growth. The intergenerational education and parenting education understand and tolerate each other, and education is not a single choice. Only diversified education can make children better.