Emotional excitement is inevitable when educating children, but violent criticism is by no means the right way. This way not only does not help solve the problem, but also may cause serious harm to children's mental health. So, how to change this bad way of education?

♀? Keep calm

When a child makes a mistake, take a deep breath and calm down. Avoid making impulsive decisions in anger, so as to deal with problems better.

effective communication

Listen to the child's heart and understand the reasons and feelings of his mistakes. Through communication, we can better understand each other and find the root of the problem.

Guidance and education

By guiding and correcting children's mistakes, tell children the correct behaviors and reasons, so that children can truly understand and correct their own mistakes.

Expressed concern

When criticizing children, don't forget to express your love and concern for them. Let your children know that your criticism is out of expectation and concern for them.

Establish rules and boundaries

Tell your child clearly which behaviors are acceptable and which are unacceptable. Let them understand the importance of rules, thus reducing the chance of making mistakes.

examine/search one's conscience/heart

Always reflect on your own educational methods, is it too harsh and unreasonable? Constantly adjust education methods to help children grow up better.