Family education is a very important thing, which is directly related to what kind of person children will become in the future. However, when parents educate their children, they will always fall into some misunderstandings, which is harmful to their future. Parents always talk condescendingly in the family, and sometimes parents need to consider problems from the perspective of their children. Only when parents look at the problem from the perspective of their children can they really communicate effectively with their children.

First of all, it is respect for children for parents to look at problems from their children's point of view. Parents love their children, and many parents plan their children's future from the moment they are born. However, the road ahead is full of uncertainty, and parents' plans to help their children at this moment may not all be realized. Only by looking at the problem from the child's point of view can we truly understand the child and give the choice to the child. In the process of growing up, children will gradually have self-awareness and know what they want. What parents should do is to let go, not to hold on.

Secondly, parents should look at the problem from the child's point of view, so as to better understand the child. Children are independent individuals, but many parents regard children as their own accessories. Even always impose their ideals on children and let them realize their ideals. Many children have their own ideals. Parents should not impose their ideals on their children. To impose parents' ideals on children is to deprive children of the right to fight for their own ideals.

Finally, in the process of communicating with children, be sure not to lose your temper. Nowadays, many parents are under great pressure, old and young. They hope to have an obedient and sensible child, but children are always a little naughty when they are young. Parents should respect their children and give them room to make mistakes. If parents always lose their temper, children will feel inferior when they get along with their parents. When a child does something wrong, parents should also know the situation first and then punish the child.