Confused and sad, she asked me:
Children seem to work hard to take notes every day in class, but the exam is a mess. Is it a fake effort?
The swordsman teacher thinks that we can make a division and divide the children's efforts into two types:
The first is called low-quality diligence, and the second is called show diligence. Let's look at it in turn.
First of all, low-quality diligence can also be divided into two types. Diligence is certain. For example, children take notes carefully, attend classes, recite texts, write words and do homework. The whole learning process is not bad, and they are not playful. These can be called diligence, and there is no objection to this.
But the whole process has been done, and there is no effect at all, so it is time to ask why. Everything wants to ask the result, and should not appear in the study! Other aspects may be called open-mindedness, but if used in learning, it is harmful to children!
There are two reasons for low quality and diligence. Admission or not, admission or not, and insufficient intellectual conditions for children to learn are one of them. In other words, some children are not born to learn, and there is nothing anyone can do. At this time, diligence may not make up for it. The tortoise-rabbit race can only be a fairy tale forever. No matter how hard the tortoise tries, it is impossible to outrun the rabbit.
If there is no problem with children's intellectual development, then there is a problem with children's learning methods. The so-called direction is wrong, and the efforts are in vain. Children are likely to do thankless things, or even run counter to them!
For example, if the foundation is not firmly laid, you must do the topic of elevation! This is studying in the panic zone, and it will only be hit hard again and again! However, some children have been studying in the comfort zone, that is, they only do the questions that they feel at ease, and they dare not challenge if they are a little more difficult. In both cases, there is no progress in learning.
What children should do is to stand on tiptoe or jump, and what they can reach is called learning in the learning area. Only by working hard in the field of learning can children achieve high-quality development.
The second kind is called showing diligence, which is the fake effort that this parent suspects. Children only show their efforts in front of outsiders, pay attention to the external form of learning, but don't devote themselves wholeheartedly. What they want is how to show themselves in front of their parents, teachers and classmates. As for what they have learned and realized, they don't care at all.
Many children do have such psychology and behavior. People are the same before, and people are the same after. On the surface, they are the same, but in the heart, they can't be the same in appearance!
But as we all know, learning is a special thing that needs sincerity! How students treat their studies, grades will never help them cheat.
What kind of children are there in your family? Do you see high-quality diligence, low-quality diligence or show diligence? Welcome to share your message.
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