(1) correct scientific attitude
Prenatal education is to make every ordinary child become healthier, smarter and improve the overall quality through training, and it should not be like some misleading propaganda, as long as prenatal education can cultivate prodigies. After all, prodigies are a minority in the crowd.
The main purpose of prenatal education is to improve the development of children's brain, nervous system, various sensory functions and motor functions, lay a good foundation for receiving various stimuli and training after birth, and make children better adapt to the future natural and social environment. Don't take prenatal education as a myth, but carry it out in a down-to-earth and scientific way. This is what we have to do.
(2) Choose the most suitable scheme
There are all kinds of "programs" in the society, which constantly describe how the children trained in this way are "extraordinary" and "super smart". Most parents can't bear to let themselves fall behind, and also donate money to participate in training or buy "programs". In fact, some of these so-called "plans" are misleading under the banner of "science" and "experts". Some theories simply can't stand scrutiny, and some obviously go against the natural process of children's development, just for economic purposes.
Therefore, in order to give children a good prenatal education, we should learn some knowledge about children's development from regular professional units and channels, including mental health during pregnancy, child psychology and pedagogy, and common sense of prenatal education. This will let you know what you are doing, keep a cool head, and be good at identifying and choosing the prenatal education method that suits you.
(3) Don't rush for success.
There are many examples of prenatal education not bringing up child prodigies, but it is ineffective and there are few cases of failure. However, some cases have also attracted the attention of relevant experts.
Some fetuses are smart and lively after music prenatal education, but they are too energetic and always don't like to sleep. It turns out that expectant mothers put prenatal education devices in their abdomen every day. Sometimes the mother falls asleep quickly because of fatigue, and the prenatal education device continues to stimulate the fetus. In fact, the more the better, the more hasty, which may interfere with the biological clock of the fetus. In addition, it should be noted that some music prenatal education tapes have poor production conditions and are accompanied by strong noise interference. Some music tapes are not suitable for prenatal education in music selection, rhythm, orchestration and so on. Generally, the music is required to be stable and clear, the rhythm is close to the normal heart rate of people, and the musical instrument is simple and elegant, with a frequency of about 500 ~ 1500 Hz, which makes people feel comfortable, quiet, happy and beautiful. Some music tapes often have high-frequency music. Maybe mom sounds fine, but she can't feel it through the abdominal wall, so it's not suitable for making prenatal education tapes.
Therefore, accurately speaking, no matter what kind of prenatal education, there are problems of appropriate stimulation methods, timing and quantification.
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In short, to have healthy and intelligent children, we should choose the best plan of scientific prenatal education, rather than rushing for success. Scientific prenatal education requires parents to have a correct understanding of prenatal education, learn corresponding knowledge and skills, and conduct it in a scientific way. According to the law of natural development, prenatal education should be carried out according to the age of the fetus and the development level of each fetus. Don't give up the opportunity to teach, and don't interfere excessively. Only by carrying out prenatal education in a planned way in natural harmony can we achieve the greatest effect.
Appendix: Scientific implementation of prenatal education
First of all, the implementation of prenatal education must be determined.
Prenatal education is mainly to train the fetus in hearing, feeling, vision, touch, movement and memory, stimulate the fetal brain cells, and make the fetus get reasonable physical and mental training and development. No matter how beautiful the theory of prenatal education is, if it is not implemented, it can only be said that it is an armchair strategist. Practice is the only criterion for testing truth. As long as you master the key to the implementation of prenatal education, you are not afraid of the failure of prenatal education.
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Put all the beautiful things on the fetus and meditate on the beautiful scenery you see and think in the fetus, so that you can feel the inside and outside and feel relaxed and happy. It is to let the pregnant mother's ears, eyes, thoughts and actions focus on the fetus, so as to achieve good implementation results.
2. We should actively carry out prenatal education.
The study found that the fact also proved that early childhood is the best period of brain development, so prenatal education has a far-reaching impact in the fetal period. Prenatal education is a training method adopted during the formation of fetal nervous system, and it is also the beginning of early infant education.
A famous scientist once said, "It is three days late for a baby to go to education after birth." Therefore, pregnant women should train the fetus in a planned and step-by-step way to promote the stable connection between various senses and brain information channels, which is helpful to the intellectual and behavioral development of newborn babies. There are positive prenatal education methods to make your hopes come true, which is the key to the implementation of prenatal education.
Second, the secret of successful prenatal education
The secret of successful prenatal education is to believe in the ability and "love and patience" of the fetus. To succeed in prenatal education, we must do the following three things well.
1. Actively participate in prenatal education
Before preparing to have children, we should have a good awareness of prenatal education, learn how to carry out prenatal care, how to carry out prenatal education, and what matters should be paid attention to in life. The content of prenatal education is centered on one purpose, that is, to input benign information, to ensure a good internal and external environment for the survival of the fetus and to make the fetus grow up healthily. All the contents of prenatal education should be carried out when the fetus is awake, and the teaching of pulling out the seedlings will be counterproductive.
2. Safe delivery
When the fetus gives birth, we must actively cooperate and strive for natural delivery. Try not to use cesarean section. Because many pregnant women mistakenly think that cesarean section is good, dystocia is often caused by uncooperative.
3. Participate in early education
After birth, we should seize the opportunity to carry out all-round sensory education. From 0 to 3 months, you should learn baby and education classes during pregnancy to avoid being in a hurry after birth.
Third, prenatal education product recommendation
At present, there are many products about prenatal education on the market, but many parents still don't know which one is more effective and more suitable for them. Here are two prenatal education products recommended.
1. Prenatal education equipment
Prenatal education device, also known as fetal intelligence enlightenment device, is an earphone device that can be placed on the expectant mother's stomach. Two wires are connected to the outside of the receiver, and one end of the wire is connected to an ordinary stereo earphone. The only special feature of this device is that the earphone part adopts single sound source design and the earphone part adopts stereo design. The benefits of prenatal education device are obvious.
(1) single sound source conduction
Usually, it is inconvenient for the fetus in the womb to enjoy the sound that people are used to. Because when the stereo is transmitted through the mother's abdomen and amniotic fluid, it will produce interference resonance, and the fetus doesn't sound good, just like we are listening to a radio with a noisy channel but not tuned. The sound conduction of a single sound source will make the fetal listening effect more ideal.
(2) Both mother and child appreciate it at the same time.
Another obvious advantage of the "prenatal education device" is that the mother and fetus can enjoy music at the same time without disturbing others, which is beneficial to prenatal education with music.
(3) Dialectical analysis of the role of prenatal education device
Although the prenatal education device has the above advantages, using a simple prenatal education device is not the same as prenatal education. Some expectant mothers listen to prenatal music to their fetuses on time every day after buying prenatal education instruments, but they don't know where their thoughts are. It is impossible to give birth to a child with superior intelligence only by a receiver and music. Any instrument needs human control and reasonable use, and cold instruments can't replace emotional communication between people. Therefore, expectant mothers should not have the idea of relying on prenatal education devices, which can only be adjusted and used together, and cannot be used as a "main" means of prenatal education.
2. Baby products
This prenatal education tool is easy to use. As long as expectant mothers wear it for 2 hours every day, that is, 1 hour in the morning and 1 hour in the evening, they can get good prenatal education effect.
(1) principle design
"BabyPlus" consists of 16 scientific design sounds with different rhythms. These syllables imitate the heartbeat of expectant mothers. With the increase of pregnancy, the rhythm is gradually accelerated, so that the fetus can hear these rhythmic sounds very clearly, and at the same time distinguish the sounds heard from the mother.
(2) Baby welfare
The rhythm of "BabyPlus" changes subtly with different pregnancies, which is very beneficial to the brain development of the fetus. The pulse frequency of "BabyPlus" is 1 time per second (1 Hz), which is very close to the heartbeat frequency of expectant mothers and the brainwave frequency of newborns (1 ~ 2 Hz). This beating sound is transmitted to the fetus, which sounds very much like the sound of arterial blood flowing through the uterus in the mother's body. With the acceleration of the rhythm of "BabyPlus" simulated sound (the frequency is adjusted once a week), the fetus will compare this sound with the surrounding background "noise" (mother's breathing heartbeat, placental blood flow, venous blood flow sound, etc.). ) to identify the change of rhythm. The acceleration of simulated syllable beat makes the fetus have to improve the speed of grasping and processing these sound signals in the brain. For comparison with other background "noise". This naturally stimulates the development of fetal brain neural network and brain memory bank.
Practice has proved that after using "BabyPlus" for prenatal education, the baby has obvious advantages: after the baby is born, his eyes and hands are open, his spirit is relaxed and he seldom cries; Be able to recognize parents' voices as early as possible; The baby sleeps well; Attention can be concentrated for a long time.