First of all, let children have a regular schedule. Ensure children's sleep needs, go to bed early and get up early, and send them to kindergarten on time, so that children can have a good mental state and receive teacher's education, and the schedule at home should be complementary to that of kindergarten. It is good for children to form good habits all their lives, but it is not a day or two. Parents should be patient.
Second, encourage children to do their own things and cultivate their independence and resilience. From simple to complex, ask step by step and give timely guidance. When children say "I'll do it myself", praise and encourage them in time to arouse their enthusiasm and initiative. For example, the preparation before eating, let the children participate together, he will feel that his work has been affirmed, and eating will become passive to active. He fell down, we encouraged him to stand up, praised him for being brave and a man, and he played happily again.
Third, communicate with children more, respect and understand children, and enhance mutual understanding between parents and children. To achieve the consistency of education, do not take care of each other. Establish friendship with children, let them treat you as friends and be willing to communicate with you; Put yourself in others' shoes. Don't just ask children to do this and that. While respecting children, children will respect you.
Fourth, cultivate children's interest in learning and develop the habit of reading independently. Parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on their children. I am used to telling him a short story before going to bed. After writing, I let him read alone. Of course, I also set an example and concentrate on my studies. After going to kindergarten for a period of time, under the guidance of the teacher, he can not only read books independently, but also ask questions, thanks to the careful education of the kindergarten teachers.
Fifth, I think it is the most critical to establish a correct concept and strengthen communication with teachers and aunts. During kindergarten, parents should realize that attending kindergarten is not for children to learn a lot of skills, but for developing good study habits, cultivating children's concentration, establishing a good character and preparing for being young.
These are some of my parenting experiences. While raising children, I am also constantly learning and growing. Of course, there are still many shortcomings. I hope that with the help of teachers and aunts, I can learn newer educational concepts and more scientific educational methods, so that children can grow up healthily and happily!
Parenting experience of primary school parents (2) Children are the hope of the future. When a parent gives birth to a child, he should not only bring up the child, but also undertake the heavy responsibility of educating the child.
But not every parent is a natural educator, so I think parents should take the initiative to learn some parenting knowledge and methods through books, or often communicate with other parents to learn their successful parenting experience. Of course, children have personality differences, and some successful parenting experiences may not be useful to their children.
I remember xx had a training class to learn dulcimer when he was in kindergarten. I asked him if he liked dulcimer. He said yes, so he signed up, but he didn't want to leave right away. Teacher Yangqin taught me a method: prepare the toys that children like in advance, and tell him that he must listen to the teacher carefully and do them with the teacher before he can get them, but the result is invalid.
Later, I analyzed that children were not interested in learning dulcimer and gave up rationally. Therefore, parents should learn to experience, analyze and summarize the parenting experience suitable for their children in their lives.
Parents should also pay attention that their usual words and deeds have a great influence on their children. Children have the shadow of parents, not only genetic factors, but also the subtle influence of parents' words and deeds.
There is a joke: the mother asked her son, "Mingming, where did you get your exercise book?" The son replied, "I picked up two books when there was no one in the school office." The mother was very angry and scolded her son, "Who told you to steal it? Isn't what I got back from the office enough for you? " Therefore, when parents scold their children's bad words and deeds, they should think about whether they are responsible. Of course, if you want your children to have many good qualities, then parents should set an example, and words are better than deeds.
I think it is important to adhere to the cultivation of children's life and study habits. I have a deep understanding of this. My child has many bad habits, such as slowness, procrastination, poor self-care ability and so on. These are all my responsibilities. It is quite difficult to find problems and change them.
So I don't think I am a successful mother, but this child has two advantages that I am proud of so far: one is kindness. Kindness is the foundation of human beings. I encourage my child to be kind and make him feel that it is beautiful to be kind to others. Second, I love reading. When the child was young, I read books with him. I never spare my time when he can read and write by himself, and I will praise him when I need to be an audience.
The above is my personal experience of accompanying my children to grow up. There is no ready-made standard for what is a good parenting method. I think the growth of children gives us adults a chance to learn again. Parents should cherish this opportunity to grow up happily with their children.
Parenting experience of primary school parents (3) I have been advancing in the exploration of children's education, drawing on the experience of my predecessors and combining the characteristics of children. After his son went to kindergarten, he thrived under the careful cultivation of teachers. Every progress he makes makes us parents feel proud and proud. I mainly have the following three experiences.
Appreciate education. Appreciating children is the best way to cultivate their self-confidence. The loveliest thing about a child is not his cleverness and liveliness, but his confidence. Self-confidence helps him to face the challenges from study and everything else bravely now and in the future. The process of cultivating self-confidence is a long-term, gradual and intangible process. In daily life, a look, a gesture and a compliment from parents are invisible forces, which can stimulate children's fighting spirit, enhance their confidence and inspire their courage.
When our son takes the initiative to help us with housework ... we will give him a "great" and give him an appreciative look. Our children grew up in such an atmosphere. For parents, loving children is a matter of course, which is extremely simple, but it is difficult to know how to love children. Numerous parenting practices have made us understand the truth that "if you love children, you must know how to appreciate them", and the effect of encouragement and praise is far better than reprimanding and beating.
Mutual respect will help children to know how to respect teachers and parents, which will help them consciously correct their daily behavior. Teachers and parents are the most important and sacred people in children's minds. Establishing the prestige of teachers and parents in children's minds and letting children consciously and sincerely correct their behaviors according to the requirements of teachers and parents is helpful to cultivate children's good study habits and living habits, which is a valuable asset for children to benefit from all their lives.
Let children learn to respect teachers, ask parents to set an example, respect their own teachers and respect their children's teachers. Parents should fully support and cooperate with everything that teachers ask them to support and cooperate, with the aim of establishing teachers' lofty prestige in children's minds.
The best way to teach children to respect their parents is to keep their promises. Let children keep their promises from childhood and know what a promise is. On the one hand, it helps to establish the prestige of parents, on the other hand, it helps to cultivate the excellent quality of children. At the same time, we should also respect children, who need equal education. There is a famous saying called "squat down to look after the children". We should kneel down to keep the same height as the children, look at the problem and the world with children's eyes, so as to truly respect and understand the children. Only under this premise, parents are more willing to actively create more time and space to understand, analyze and care for their children and provide them with the most suitable education.
Guide education. "Fathers want their children to succeed, and mothers want their daughters to succeed", which is our nature as parents. However, if this expectation exceeds the range that children can bear, it will become a burden for children and hinder their happy and healthy growth. We don't want our son to live for the expectations of his parents. Let children develop freely is the principle we have always adhered to in the process of educating children. But free development does not mean laissez-faire.
Teachers and parents are his navigators during the child's growth. When he was in a coma, we checked and urged him in strict accordance with the teacher's requirements; When he is in trouble, we give him timely guidance. At the same time, pay attention to discovering his shortcomings, specialties and interests, and give targeted guidance. Our purpose is not to make him famous and have a family. We only hope that he will be more confident and appreciate the joy of life because of his own ability in his future life!
These are my three superficial experiences in parenting. We know that every step of the son's growth is soaked with the teacher's hard work and sweat. I sincerely thank the teachers who helped my son acquire knowledge and grow up happily!
Some people say, "There are no children who can't be taught, only parents who can't be taught." I quite agree with this view. So how can we educate our children well? I think parents should not only have a good parenting attitude, but also pay attention to parenting methods. Let me talk about my own experience in educating my son:
1. As parents, we should first adjust our mentality and recognize the child's personality characteristics, advantages and disadvantages. In the face of children's education, we should have a stable mood and a healthy mood. Which parents don't love their children, but love doesn't mean connivance. Parents must not follow their children in everything, learn to refuse their children, and let them know why you refuse him. What is your reason for refusing? Let him know that sometimes rejecting him is also a kind of love for him. On the long road of life, everything may not go smoothly, and even if it doesn't, he knows what to do.
2. Pay attention to moral education. If parents want to know what kind of person they want their children to be, they must know the truth of "learn to be a man first, then learn to be a man". Only people with good conduct will be respected and respected by others. Therefore, we pay more attention to children's moral education, and often regard ideals, beliefs and love as the main educational goals, which run through the whole process of children's education.
3. Communicate with children more, listen carefully and understand their psychological needs. Generally speaking, I still pay attention to communicating with children. I call it chatting. For example, what happened to you at school and kindergarten today? What makes you happy and unhappy? But chatting is not nagging. If you can turn nagging into chatting, and give children more affirmation and encouragement at the same time.
As the saying goes, "it is better to win a prize than to win a prize." No matter how small the advantages of children are, we should affirm and praise them, which is very beneficial to cultivate their self-confidence. Of course, a warm and harmonious family is also very important for children. Family harmony can cultivate children's happy personality and positive attitude towards life, so that children can grow up healthily and happily.
4. Pay attention to pioneering thinking and demand all-round development. Children's interests are varied and constantly changing. According to this characteristic of children, we should develop their intelligence reasonably, broaden their thinking and let them learn as much as possible. At the same time, parents should adapt to this feature in the process of children's development, supplement and absorb all aspects of knowledge in time, and answer children's questions. I think it is very important that parents should take part in children's activities more.
5. Encourage more and reprimand less. Never say anything like "stupid", "naughty" and "worthless" in front of children. Because today's children have strong self-esteem, your child's young mind will be hurt. In fact, when you blame her for disappointing, you can squat down and encourage him with an encouraging tone.
6. Put education into practice. Give children more opportunities to practice instead of directly blaming them. For example, children are often asked to buy things like salt and soap. You may miscalculate the children at first. Don't blame him at this time, and then let him buy it again. After several times, children usually make fewer mistakes when they buy things again. This method of not blaming the failure on the children, but trying to make them practice, practice and experience repeatedly can always achieve good results.
Parents are the best teachers for children, and educating children is a long-term process. In the process of educating children, we should not be too hasty. We should consider their physical and psychological conditions and give them more patience. Believe that your children are the best!
Primary school parents' experience in raising children (5) Like our parents, the school wants children to grow up healthily and happily, study hard and be serious, so the parents' school is set up for the parents of every first-grade classmate. Through the platform of parent school, we fully feel the efforts of the school to pursue first-class and all-round quality education.
I remember attending the opening ceremony of parent school for the first time. I still have many doubts: parent school, what a strange word! Only after listening to a lesson can we understand the mystery. It turns out that this school is specially set up for our young parents, and it also makes us realize the important role of family education in promoting quality education. Help us to establish a correct view of education and talents; It is also a good school that makes us understand that being a man is far more important than achievement. So, thank you very much for providing our parents with a rare learning opportunity!
Here, according to my feelings and sentiments after attending classes in parents' schools, I will talk about my own experience in educating children, and also discuss with teachers and parents:
First, appreciation education
About appreciation education, I also bought food specially, and later I heard the teacher mention it in the lecture of parents' school. We find and appreciate children's progress, which not only affects the effect of children's learning and doing things, but also affects their attitude towards learning and doing things.
If we don't listen, observe, affirm or praise children's progress, children's learning attitude will certainly be hit. So let's not be stingy with our smiles and compliments, but always encourage them: "You are great! I am so proud of you! " Of course, appreciating education does not mean rejecting criticism, just don't forget to give them a hug after criticizing them and let them know how much we love them!
Second, learn to be tolerant and refuse selfishness.
Today's children are all only children, and there are little emperors at home. They are afraid of falling into their hands and melting in their mouths. I believe many parents have a deep understanding of this. One-child families tend to be child-centered, and from childhood to adulthood, they are used to reaching for clothes and eating with their mouths open, regardless of anything, because parents will arrange everything properly and stick to it, and all good things are exclusive to one person.
If you do something wrong, you can't call or say it. From this, you will develop your child's selfish character and not understand tolerance. Therefore, we should cultivate children's sense of responsibility, let them know how to share happiness with others, know how to be modest, know how to respect, know how to work as a team, know how to honor their parents and respect their teachers. I often tell my son to make more friends in class and always help others. Or when you accept the help of your classmates, you should know how to thank and be grateful!
It is said that the only child is a selfish generation. They lack necessary training and experience since childhood, which easily leads to personal character and ideological defects, which is obviously a great regret and crisis in life. It is really hard to imagine what kind of performance and posture they will have when they enter the society in the future.
Third, accept setbacks and failures.
As for my son, I know I have done a terrible job at this point. From birth to now, he has hardly suffered setbacks or failures. What impressed me most was that my son accidentally knocked down his classmates at school. He has never been criticized by his teacher. His face changed because he was too nervous, but he frightened the teacher. It can be seen that excessive concern makes him unable to bear such a thing, so it is necessary to properly let the children out of the greenhouse.
One day my son came back and told me that he was punished by the teacher today. I asked why. He said that because of his speech in class, before I could comment, he said, "Mom, didn't you say you wanted me to receive frustration education?" Being punished by the teacher is a setback! I laughed at that time, yeah, maybe it's not necessarily a bad thing to make mistakes occasionally and be criticized by the teacher.
Fourth, bear injustice.
Being wronged is a sign of strength and courage, and it is more mature and deeper courage. And this kind of tolerance or tolerance is exactly what our children lack. Maybe in the future, we will not worry about their studies, their grades, but how they will go to society. How to find yourself in society? How to quickly integrate and adapt to this complex and changeable society? !
Then if the child is wronged at school or elsewhere, tell him to be modest with the child. This humility and injustice will not let him lose anything. We should educate him to stand up bravely and keep a healthy attitude and noble personality while bravely bearing grievances.
Five, form good habits
What can change our lives may be some good habits! Success is a habit, so is failure. For children, developing good habits of life and study will benefit them for life. Parental preaching will also subtly change and influence children. So when we ask our children not to do this or that, or to do this or that, please ask yourself if you have done this. And good habits are cultivated in some trivial and subtle things. It is said that behavior determines habit, habit determines character, and character determines fate, so I hope that children can develop good study and life habits through hard work, so that they will not return empty-handed when looking for success in the future.
Six, one point pays one point.
A friend told me that children in primary schools should spend their time playing instead of studying all day. Maybe that's true. It can make children as happy as they want in childhood and enjoy the happy time of carefree adolescence. However, the reality of education makes it impossible for us to do this. Faced with such a competitive society, I really want to teach my children the skills of seventy-two changes. Therefore, in order not to lose at the starting line and to help children find happiness more successfully in their future lives, parents can only let their children learn more. Of course, it is not good to encourage children. Children's study is a lifelong matter. And those parents who let their children learn to go with the flow and implement "open" management, you can only get the results you want if you pay.
I remember a saying: if your child can't grow into a towering tree, let him be an unknown grass, and he can also bring you the beauty of spring; If your child can't be a Wang Yang, let him be the smallest wave, and he can also bring you the joy of jumping; If your child can't be a celebrity, let him be an ordinary person, whether he is a thorough farmer, an ordinary worker, a soldier or a businessman. As long as he is honest, upright, kind and enterprising, his parents should be proud. As long as he is a useful person to society, it is enough.
Through learning, I understand that parents should treat their children with a normal heart, understand their children, cultivate their self-esteem and self-confidence, and let them grow up healthily and become useful people to society. At the same time, parents should also pay attention to their words and deeds, and strive to create a good learning atmosphere, so that children can grow up healthily and study easily in a warm and happy environment.