First, the disadvantages of suppressing critical education In fact, children who grew up in such an environment in Bian Xiao are very prone to rebellious psychology and sometimes very rebellious. Moreover, I will be very inferior to people and have no confidence in myself. Sometimes I have deep doubts about myself and think that I am doing the right thing. These are all critical education, and the disadvantages are also some problems I am facing now. Parents educate their children in this way in order to make them stronger and more modest, but this sometimes causes their children's inferiority.
Second, why parents can't encourage their children. The criticism is that many parents who educate their children will not encourage them, because they think that encouraging their children will make them proud and make people fall behind. This is what these parents think about their children's education. And when encouraging children, we also encourage them with a very casual attitude. No matter what achievements the child has made, he will not give the greatest affirmation. In the past, children had self-doubt and thought they were inferior to others. Parents have always been dissatisfied with themselves.
Third, we can't just use one way of education. The best way for parents to educate their children is not simply criticizing education or simply encouraging education, but on their children. Encourage children when they do well. When you are too proud, suppress your children again. Only in this way can children grow up in a good environment, instead of becoming overconfident or completely unconfident.