The affectionate upbringing of cello urchin Zhang, a cellist, is known as the king of thought and the musical urchin. Because of the birth and growth of his daughter, he put his unruly mind on music. Since he had a daughter, he found a home, and his deep and delicate feelings for her also revealed a kind of love called "family". Walking into Zhang's home, I saw the "empty living room" mentioned in his book. Many people think that Zhang has just moved into this seemingly unfurnished space. There are only simple sofas and lockers, but people can easily walk to the floor-to-ceiling windows and watch the spacious Sun Yat-sen Memorial Hall and the calm sunshine and haze of Yangming Mountain in the distance. This is the beautiful home he is proud of, and the living room is reserved for his daughter, the little goldfish. He said that "Zhang Dad's second move" is also to give children a better growth environment, and this "better" lies in humanity and nature, not "school district room". Spending money on the cutting edge says that he is not rich, but he only spends money on what he thinks is the cutting edge, that is, it depends on the "intention" of spending money. "Needless to say, the houses around Sun Yat-sen Memorial Hall are sky-high. I can't afford to support them, but I am willing to pay high rent for the growth and vision of my children. He believes that many things depend on whether you are willing to do it, rather than using money as an excuse. " I will consider the money spent on children's clothes, toys and talent classes; I am willing to spend the money saved on traveling with my family. Even if the budget is not much, you can arrange a self-help tour. The key is whether you have the heart or not. "Some parents are relieved after leaving their children in the talent class, saying that they can do their own things, such as shopping. As a result, the talent class spent a lot of money, shopping, buying designer bags or watches ... As a result, the money was spent more, and the time spent talking to children was less, but there was even more excuse to complain that they had no time and no money. " The same idea, coupled with wanting to give children different good memories, made Zhang "determined" to temporarily put down his job in Taiwan Province and take his family to live in Austria for a year. For Zhang, Austria is his second hometown. He has lived there for 13 years and is familiar with everything there. And there is a "godmother" who teaches him how to be a father. This dopted mother not only manages her life neatly and meticulously, but also fears that the cold food from Europe will make Zhang uncomfortable and will cook a pot of soup to warm her stomach. Even every time I go back to Austria, my godmother, who rarely cooks, cooks soup for him. For him, this "taste code" also continues to get along with his daughter. He hopes that every time he cooks chicken soup carefully for his family, it will become the "taste of dad" in his daughter's mouth. "I have lived in Europe for many years. It can be said that I spent the best time in my life in Austria. I am familiar with everything there, as well as my godmother, relatives and friends. Because I know, I know how to maintain my Excellence, and at the same time take into account the advantages of European culture. Moreover, culture is not rapid, and it needs to be studied bit by bit in daily life from an early age to see the whole picture. Zhang listened to his friend's advice before going to primary school, and took the little goldfish to a kindergarten in Austria before going to primary school, so as not to be afraid of not learning well in the future. "Taiwan Province Province is the only country in the world that doesn't attach importance to mother tongue! He emphasized that letting children study in Austria is not for language factors at all, but for children to experience different lifestyles and thinking logic. These things can only be really learned by living in the local area, and the whole family can go and live together. He said that young international students are too bitter, and they have tasted this kind of pain themselves, so they will not consider letting their children study abroad alone since they were young. Now that the family is living happily in Austria, will you consider letting your daughter continue her primary school there after kindergarten? He said no, because he would return to his "hometown" after all, and he hoped his daughter could adapt to the environment in Taiwan Province Province. As for primary schools, how to choose? He said it would be nice to go to an ordinary primary school; Don't consider forest primary school, because you are worried that attending forest primary school may lead to the problem of not adapting to the mainstream society in the future. He doesn't care much about the little goldfish's future school performance. What he has always cared about is whether children know life and happiness. 30 yuan's life education Zhang also attaches great importance to "opportunity education". Once the little goldfish passed by the flower shop and suddenly told him that he wanted to buy flowers. When parents hear this, they may immediately think, why buy flowers when they are only 4 years old? Zhang said that although she was surprised at the time, she immediately agreed to her daughter's request and let her choose the flowers she wanted. Finally, the little goldfish picked a red rose. From discussing the shape of the rose (including touching it carefully with a thorn), choosing the right bottle and observing the daily growth and changes, a rose became the key topic of the year (the father and the daughter would guess the length of the flowering period respectively). In addition to marveling at the beauty of life released by flowers, people are also grateful for the beauty they have. It is worthwhile to spend 30 yuan for a life education, Zhang said. In addition, he once took his wife and daughter to the ruins of Xiaolin Village to play. " It is best not to take children to places that are traditionally considered' unclean'. Although I have no religious belief, I thought for a long time and decided to bring the little goldfish at the last minute. He thinks it is possible to share the victim's heart with music; My daughter still has an impression on the reports about the flood in 1988. Death may be interpreted with a bright attitude from the beginning. So after a concert without an audience, he said to his daughter, "This used to be a village, because the soil in the mountains came down, and it was buried in the soil and disappeared. Dad doesn't know them, but I hope they can hear my music and feel safe and quiet. Remind yourself of the role of "parents": "When a child needs you, you are there for him. Zhang has always been very wary of himself. Children are more sensitive than adults, and know every look and answer of their parents like the palm of their hand, so he never perfunctory children's opinions or questions. He listened attentively to the children and kept telling himself to cherish this short time and feel the changes of the children all the time. "Now I can give you a hug and hold hands with you, but maybe not in a few years. He said that until now, he still misses the feeling of holding a small goldfish in its infancy. Although it is heavy and my hands are sore, it is a kind of enjoyment. In the face of children's changes all the time, it is precisely because "father" has ears that don't beat horses that it is deeply imprinted in the text and preserved. " My daughter has taught me a lot. I hope I can give her the confidence to face the problem, so that she can keep the ability to jump out of the framework and not stick to an answer. 10 answers, 50 answers or even no answers at all, it doesn't matter. At the same time, he shared two classic quotations about the little goldfish: when taking the high-speed train, my mother and the little goldfish played with drawing boards to kill time, because the little goldfish would recognize some simple hieroglyphs, such as: MuàLinàSen；; At this time, Mommy had a whim and asked the little goldfish, "What do you mean' three cars together'? She thought for a moment and said, "Car accident. Another example is that Zhang asked a younger brother, "Why did the apple fall from the tree?" The little brother racked his brains and said, "... gravity?" At this time, the little goldfish on the side said, "Because it is mature. Zhang's current position: full-time professor of Ocean University, director of art and culture center. Education: Vienna Conservatory of Music, sibelius, Finland. Experience: Voorburg Conservatory of Music, Austria