Establish good communication
Establishing good communication with children is the key. Listen to their thoughts and feelings and express their understanding and concern.
Set clear rules and expectations
Establish clear rules and expectations to ensure that children understand what is acceptable behavior and what is unacceptable behavior.
Formulate an appropriate reward and punishment system
Establish a reward system to encourage good behavior, and at the same time formulate appropriate punishment measures to let children know that disobedience will have consequences.
Maintain consistency
Teach children to persevere. If family members agree on the code of conduct, children will understand and accept it more easily.
Frontal reinforcement
Emphasize and actively strengthen good behavior. Give positive feedback and rewards when children do good deeds.
Set reasonable expectations
Make sure your expectations of children are reasonable, taking into account their age and development level.
Look for the root cause
If the child repeatedly disobeys, it may be important to understand the reasons behind it. Children may show problem behaviors due to emotional problems, academic problems or other troubles.
Education rather than punishment
Try to use educational methods to help children understand the influence of their actions on themselves and others and teach them better ways to solve problems.
Encourage independence
Give children some opportunities to make decisions independently and encourage them to develop their autonomy and sense of responsibility.
Seek professional help
If children's problem behaviors persist and affect their life and development, you can consider seeking professional psychological counseling or family counseling.