1, the attitude of parents determines the upbringing of children: don't say that you care about him and don't listen, this is a bad excuse to shirk responsibility. Children who listen to what they say basically don't exist.
Young children can't understand that "knowing mistakes can make a lot of progress." In children's cognition, admitting mistakes means admitting that you are a bad boy.
Parents should not only explain the truth, but also tell their children that it is brave and responsible to apologize in time after doing something wrong. Only by repeatedly demonstrating can he slowly learn to admit his mistake. This is a great challenge to parents' patience, perseverance and self-education.
2. Don't negotiate with terrorists: it is inevitable that some scenes will get out of control. Most children will lie on the ground and roll, cry and so on. Embarrass you, force you to make concessions and fight for your rights.
In such a difficult situation, we must take him away from the scene and public places first. Wait until the mood is stable, then be reasonable and explain clearly what can and can't be done and the consequences of doing so. Parents must stick to the boundaries and principles and don't give in. Only slowly can children truly understand the boundaries of the rules.
Don't treat him as a child forever: the baby's brain is close to an adult at 18~24 months. He made a mistake. When you say "he is still a child", it is equivalent to telling him that children are inferior and different from adults. Because of the low level, you can not follow the rules and don't consider the feelings of others.
Equality and respect are the basic rules of the adult world, which requires parents to treat and respect their children as truly independent people.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. Tell him that we respect you and that you should respect others. Only those who respect others will get the same respect from others, give him respect, self-esteem and sense of self-worth, and let him know that he can be like an adult.
For children, the behavior of adults is the best living lesson, and the whole family should reason with practical actions, keeping today and tomorrow unchanged, and adults and children unchanged.
Teaching him how to get along with society and correct values is the most important thing for parents and the responsibility for their children. Don't ruin your children because of your connivance. As Mr. Lu Xun said in "A Warrior is a Warrior after All", "When I was young, I didn't treat him as a human being. When I grew up, I couldn't be a man."