Ideological and moral education is an important part of children's all-round development education. Every parent wants his children to be knowledgeable, capable and morally noble. In the whole preschool education, ideological and moral education is primary and basic. Because children's ideological and moral values not only affect children's growth path, but also affect the country's development future. In order to consolidate and develop the achievements of socialist revolution and construction and move towards a communist society, we must cultivate the next generation with proletarian moral quality and make them become revolutionary successors with ideals, morality, education and discipline. This is a far-reaching event, which should attract parents' attention.

First of all, we should realize that children are in the embryonic stage of the formation of personality and moral quality, and the establishment of revolutionary ideals and the cultivation of socialist moral quality need to be started from an early age. Psychologists' research proves that 2 ~ 7 years old is an important period when a person's personality and moral character begin to form. In this period, children's brain nerve activity has great plasticity. Children are curious, imitative, curious, exploratory and easily influenced by the outside world. At this time, if we can always get along well with others and combine our own wishes with the collective requirements, collectivism will easily form in the future; At this time, if you love your parents, teachers and everything around you, you will love your motherland in the future; At this time, if you can follow the instructions of adults and take part in the labor within your power, you will love labor and abide by discipline in the future; At this time, if you don't bully others, help and care for others since childhood, and be polite to others, you will serve the people enthusiastically when you grow up; If you are good at doing one thing to the end at this time, you may become a strong-willed person who dares to overcome difficulties in the future. Numerous facts have proved that people's various moral qualities germinate and mature in preschool period. Therefore, revolutionary ideals and morality should start from an early age. If we can grasp early, accurately and well, we can often get twice the result with half the effort. Otherwise, if children do not pay close attention to education when they are young and let them develop bad habits, it will have extremely bad consequences for their ideological and moral formation.

Secondly, from a practical point of view, family moral quality education, especially early childhood education, has a very important impact on children's growth. A person's moral quality is the basis of the world outlook. Good family education in early childhood will have a lifelong impact on people. Wu, an old educator, recalled the influence of family education on him and said, "When I was sensible, my father taught me to be an indomitable person when I grew up. Grandma often said that thieves steal needles and thieves steal gold, and unjust things would rather starve to death than accept them, and often called me' finish what I started'. Whenever I have leisure time, my elders will tell me the story of Yue Fei and Wen Tianxiang. When I was a child, family education was mostly about' wealth can't be lewd, poverty can't be moved, and power can't be bent'. These educations have a positive impact on my later participation in revolutionary activities, the cultivation of my national integrity, and the cultivation of my living habits and style. " Thus, family ideological and moral education plays a great role in children's growth. Similarly, many cases of juvenile delinquency in society are almost directly and closely related to poor family education. Some common sayings, such as "breast-feeding in the execution ground", "stealing money when you grow up" and "not teaching when you are young, being unfilial when you grow up", all illustrate the importance of strengthening children's moral education.

Thirdly, from the actual situation in our country, it is very necessary and urgent for families to educate their children in ideological and moral education. On the one hand, due to the reform and opening up, it has brought many good influences to children, broadened their horizons, enlivened their thoughts and enhanced their thirst for knowledge. On the other hand, we should also see that the new environment and historical conditions have also brought many new problems. The ideas of the bourgeoisie and other exploiters are widespread in society, and children will inevitably be affected. If education is not strengthened now, it will be difficult for them to educate as adults. Therefore, moral education should start with children. Parents should cultivate their children's ability to distinguish right from wrong, so that when they grow up, they will not only have good socialist ideological and moral quality, but also be able to identify and resist the ideological influence of the exploiting classes.