I once visited a classmate's home in my university. The classmate's child is 5 years old. She is a lovely little girl and a curious baby. She wants to see and touch everything. At first, the classmate just warned the children to be polite and not to tamper with other people's things. Slowly, I became familiar with the children, and the children no longer revolved around us adults and began their own exploration. In the blink of an eye, I saw the children skipping to the kitchen. When the students saw it, they followed and stopped: "How many times has Mom said, don't go to such a dangerous place in the kitchen alone? Why don't you listen? " As he spoke, he held the child over, but after a while, the child ran to the cabinet and stepped on the small bench to get the handicrafts on the cabinet. When the classmates saw it, they made a fuss and ran over and stayed with the children all morning.

In our daily life, I believe many parents will do the same behavior as my classmate, which is easy to understand. After all, parents are very concerned about the safety of their children. They think that children don't know anything when they are young, and they don't have the consciousness and ability to protect themselves in danger. In order to prevent children from being hurt, parents always prevent their children from doing dangerous things and always try their best to protect their safety and health. This is the nature of parents.

However, our parents often ignore, or can ignore, that children will grow up sooner or later and face life alone. Even if the child is very young, parents can't guarantee to be with him 24 hours a day. Indeed, keeping children away from dangerous goods and dangerous places can directly reduce the possibility of children being hurt, but at the same time, because of the protection of parents, children will not and do not know how to deal with the dangers in life. At that time, the so-called careful care of parents would only become a weapon to push children into the abyss.

So today we will talk about children's safety education.

1. Misunderstanding of safety education 1. All talk and no action.

In fact, parents also consciously carry out safety education for their children, but it is often a kind of "oral education". They just give their children a written or oral account and tell them what they can't do. This kind of armchair safety education will only make them sleepy, or like listening to a story, it goes in one ear and out the other, and they don't want to analyze why they can't do it, so tell them.

2. Unclear responsibilities

Many schools pay too much attention to the education of cultural knowledge and the cultivation of professional skills, thus ignoring the safety education for children, thinking that this is the responsibility of parents, but in fact the safety of children is jointly maintained by the whole society. Moreover, looking at children's growth stage, children spend much more time at school than at home, and the education they receive is not only in the field of skills and knowledge, but also worth learning about their own safety and health. This unclear responsibility has led to children not getting a good safety education, which has formed a shortcoming in this regard.

3. Overprotection

There is also a situation, like the type mentioned by my classmate at the beginning, which is typical of overprotecting children in the name of safety education. In order to prevent children from being in danger and hurt, simply keep children out of contact with risk factors. But parents should know that exploration and adventure are not only dangerous things for children, but also let children really master the ability and skills to control risks and face dangerous things calmly and cautiously. Only by letting children master this ability can our safety education be truly effective.

The ultimate result of parents' over-protection of children will only make children "fragile" and easy to form a vicious circle, because the more unsafe factors, the greater the protection of parents and the less safe children are. They are seemingly isolated from danger, but they have no life experience and lack self-protection consciousness, which leads to the end of being at a loss when danger comes. Therefore, our parents should carry out correct safety education for their children. Here, we encourage parents to take their children to simulate danger and boldly let them "experience" danger.

Two: Let children experience the benefits of danger 1. Cultivate children's sense of independence.

The most likely consequence of parents' over-protection of their children is that their children have a sense of dependence, and their sense of independence is slowly eroded, becoming puppet dolls pulled and dominated by their parents. Therefore, letting go at the right time can make your children really grow up. After all, children will go out to work independently one day, even if parents have the heart to accompany their children all the time, they are willing to stand on their own feet. After all, life is your own.

Letting children experience danger is also a way to cultivate their sense of independence, so that children can learn how to face danger and live independently better.

2. Cultivate children's spirit of exploration

Children are playful and active by nature. Parents should pay attention to this, which is not only the performance of children being naughty, but also the performance of children's self-awareness gradually becoming clear. They are more and more curious about the world and want to try to do what they like and solve their inner doubts. Every exploration process is a summary of their growth experience. However, parents' excessive protection of their children will gradually make them lose their desire to take risks and explore. They are used to this kind of pervasive supervision, and they will become to seek the opinions of adults when making decisions.

The bold experience of danger can stimulate children's exploration spirit and make them grow and progress in exploration.

Children are becoming more and more brave.

The process of children's growth is the process of overcoming fear. According to the research of evolutionary psychology, children are born with the instinct of taking risks in play, and human beings are in a dangerous environment at the beginning of birth. Learning to face and deal with danger is also the foundation of human progress. Parents' overprotection of children leads to children's lack of ability to cope with danger. This kind of understanding is actually not in line with the laws of nature. Children should force themselves to do what they are afraid of. Only in this way can they overcome their psychological fears and grow up in a real sense, thus overcoming their fear of danger, and their children will become more and more brave.

Therefore, parents should not always confine their children to their designated safe areas. This practice actually closes the growth of their children, and their children will not make great progress and achievements.