Companionship, reading, habit
Life is the best teacher.
Everyone has to go through three studies in his life.
Guided by parents, exploring the mystery of the world, that is, family education;
Under the guidance of teachers, swimming in the ocean of knowledge, that is school education;
Social education is the most upright backbone forged by society.
Many parents go to great lengths to help their children sign up for various interest classes and extra-long classes. I want my children to be one step ahead and win at the starting line. But in fact, parents themselves are the best starting line for children.
There are three keys to educating children: companionship, reading and habits.
The sooner you know, the more helpful it will be to your child's growth.
1. Gentle teaching is also companionship
The new educational reform puts forward a proposition-reading, writing and living together.
No matter how busy parents are, they should find ways to accompany their children, even if time is tight, even if they are pretending.
At home, many parents play games and watch TV, which is normal, but if they want their children to walk better, they must restrain their behavior.
Children's thoughts are friendship.
Far-sighted parents will not let their children fly by themselves. They will shelter their children from the wind and rain, let them feel love and learn to love.
2. Parents fall in love with reading first
The reading manual quoted a poem:
"You may have unlimited wealth, boxes of jewels and boxes of gold. But you will never be richer than me. I have a mother who reads to me. "
The initial reading is parent-child reading, which is read by parents to their children. Because children can't read, reading is more about looking at pictures.
Children first know the world through pictures. Children's books are not only edifying, but also healing. It is more useful for children to have corresponding books to solve any problems than to say 10 thousand lessons after reading them. The seeds of reading are sown at home.
Cultivate good habits
(1) Stick to the habit of exercise
Taking children to participate in sports from time to time is not only conducive to cultivating children's tough quality, but also helps to lay a good physical foundation for him.
(2) the habit of conscious learning.
First of all, let him understand the importance of learning, in fact, is to teach him the correct learning methods.
③ the habit of managing time.
Work and rest rules, play at will when you should play, and study hard when you should learn.
4 the habit of doing housework.
Let children take part in housework after studying. Experience the difficulty and fun of life in housework.
Some people say that children are the epitome of parents, and the level of parents can be seen from children.
Times have changed. In this era, it is no longer possible to educate children with sticks and scolding. Reasonable education plans should be made according to children's different personalities.
Many parents will praise how excellent other people's children are, but they don't know it. In fact, it's just that you are not good enough to delay the growth of your child.
Educating children is a long-term practice!