The child's body and mind will be hurt; Children's popularity will be hurt; Children's love will be hurt; Children's workplaces will be hurt. Please look at the following analysis:
First, the child's body and mind will be hurt. Xiao Min and Xiao Xuan appeared in such a family. When they are young, they are seldom happy. The main reason is that their parents always educate them in a negative way: you are ugly, you are stupid, you are useless in your studies, you are not kind ... you can't stand such words on anyone, not to mention their parents educate them like this every day. Although their parents keep saying that it is good for them, the two children are always depressed, and the most direct harm of this depression is their health-because every time a rice bowl is served, those words come from their parents (especially their mother), so who is in the mood to eat? In the long run, the children's appetite is getting smaller and smaller, and the two children are getting thinner and thinner. Later, they often get sick. Now that both children are adults, the older child is getting better after marriage, but the smaller body is still not good.
Otherwise, parents' education will not only seriously harm children's health, but also further harm their psychology. The main performance is that the two children have a serious lack of self-confidence and don't believe in themselves no matter what they do. For this kind of injury, parents refused to admit at first: it is obviously for the sake of children, how did the children become like this? Now parents have realized this, but it is too late to regret it.
Second, the popularity of children will be hurt. Because the child has been educated by stereotypes since childhood, over time, he also looks at the world in a negative way, and once such a negative type is used on his friends around him, it will make them feel very uncomfortable. And if you don't change this time, your popularity will definitely get worse and worse.
Just like Xiaomi at work, he likes to use negative and mean words when talking to everyone, which makes people feel very uncomfortable. Although she is not bad in nature, no one can associate with her with negative energy. Now her popularity is so poor that she is alone everywhere.
Third, children's love will be hurt. A person who likes to associate with people in a negative way is doomed to suffer many setbacks in love. Just like the neighbor's daughter Xiao Min, this 30-year-old girl has never married herself because of the rigid education she received since childhood. To tell the truth, as far as appearance is concerned, she looks good and her job is passable. There are many people who have introduced her before, but no matter which boy she meets, she will treat others with a negative attitude, which will make the boys feel frustrated one by one, and whoever mentions the girl's name will have a shadow in her heart.
There was once a young man who fell in love with a girl regardless, and it was time to talk about marriage. However, a dinner party wiped out the previous good situation. It is said that there were many boys' friends at the dinner table. The boy invited them to share his happiness with his friends. He doesn't want girls to start denying objects again, which makes boys feel embarrassed. In the end, the meal broke up in discord, and there was no result later.
Fourth, children's life ideals will be hurt. In reality, not all children who have received negative education since childhood are not smart. On the contrary, some children are really smart, but their personality hurts them. For example, Xiao Yuan, a college student majoring in architectural design, graduated from a famous school. According to common sense, most of the people who came out of that famous school have realized their ideals in life, and the workplace is naturally very successful. But there are exceptions Take Xiao Yuan as an example. Because she likes to associate with people in a negative way, what she sees in her eyes is also the negative way of others, which makes everyone very disgusted with her and stay away from her, so she has no popularity anywhere and no one is willing to help her. In the end, she can only take a job at home and help people design and make money. What a sad character!
Now she really wants to change herself. Personally, I think it should be effective for a person to realize his own personality shortcomings and seriously correct them. Let's wish her out of trouble as soon as possible and become a winner in life.
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