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How to educate children in the face of theft?
1. Educate children patiently. No matter what motive the child takes other people's things, "stealing" is a disgraceful act. Maybe it's just a blow to you to know that children have taken other people's things: when did children learn to steal? But remember, you can't get angry at this time, let alone fight with children. Some parents think that only "beating" can correct children's "stealing" behavior. In fact, if you are wrong and don't play well, not only can you not help your child get rid of bad habits, but you will also alienate the feelings between parents and children. He will feel lonely and won't get the warmth of his family. Stealing is not only difficult to get rid of, but also may be afraid to go home, wander outside, associate with the prodigal son in society, be used by them, and finally go astray. Therefore, in the face of children's theft, working mothers should first control their emotions and calm themselves down, and then educate their children calmly. When you educate your child in this respect, you should care about things rather than people, point out his mistakes in a friendly way, respect his personality, don't hurt his self-esteem, and avoid making him feel disgusted or antagonistic towards you.

2. Instill the children with corresponding moral concepts. If the child has not been educated in this field, parents should find opportunities to discuss this issue with the child as soon as possible. Regardless of whether the child has such behavior, it is necessary to make the child realize that stealing is wrong and immoral. It's someone else's. You can't just take it back to your home. If you like it, you must ask others for permission to take it away, and you must express your gratitude to others. If you don't ask others' permission, you should take things home casually and return them to them as soon as possible, and you should apologize to them and admit your mistakes.

3. Teach children to control their desires. All children have the desire to possess what they like, and it is easy to impulsively cheat when no one sees them. Therefore, prevention in advance is particularly important. In daily life, working mothers can teach their children to control their desires in combination with specific situations. For example, when going shopping, they should remind their children in advance that they can't take things away without paying; Or when visiting a friend's house, first tell the children not to touch other people's things without their permission.