What should students do if they have rebellious psychology? 1. Incentive method. Junior high school students are still minors physically and psychologically. In their usual education, more encouragement methods such as praise, reward, commitment and praise will have good results. Many parents and friends are eager to see their children become dragons. Once they find children and bad seeds, they will stop them forcibly, son, but if they don't listen to this, the effect will be counterproductive. We might as well put down the cold mask, find that the child has made a little progress, pick up the weapon of praise, and let him realize his important position in your mind.
2. Closing method. Having time to chat and exchange with children is not necessarily a formal topic. Talking about life, or talking about one's school and work experience, can create a kind of intimacy in students' psychology, thus achieving the purpose of educating students. Nowadays, many parents are working outside the home, so it is difficult to see their children once a day, even once a week or once a month. This is not right. Parents with the above situation should call more often, at least once every two days, ask about his study, life and difficulties, and express their thoughts about him. Imagine that you haven't communicated, communicated or been close to your children. He thinks you don't care about him at all. How can he not alienate you?
3. Treat rebellion correctly. Many parents should know that the root cause of rebellion is that children grow up and begin to learn to look at things around them critically from different angles, because unskilled thinking will trip on the way forward. As long as parents and teachers give enough respect and recognition to students in rebellious period and help them through this stage with necessary patience, most students will eventually choose to return and re-establish harmonious parent-child relationship and teacher-student relationship.
4. Guide students to study by themselves. While guiding middle school students' rebellious mentality, we should guide students to carry out self-education, actively mobilize students' subjective initiative, purposefully cultivate students' self-awareness, let middle school students consciously reflect and educate themselves, discover and correct their own shortcomings in time, strive to shape perfect personality, and fundamentally avoid the emergence of students' rebellious mentality.
5. Cultivate the habit of independent thinking of middle school students. Parents should not be crutches for children to learn. When children have questions that they don't understand, parents can discuss them with their children and guide them to think with their own brains instead of doing it for them completely. Home-school cooperation and kindness to students: to some extent, family is the main fuse of students' rebellion. For example, parents have high expectations and strict requirements for their children.
6. Cultivate common hobbies with children. Students spend most of their time in the classroom. Teachers should create a democratic, tolerant, kind and friendly classroom atmosphere, which is conducive to improving students' rebellious psychology and behavior. Usually, we should cultivate children's specialties or hobbies. When playing ball, the teacher can say to him, "You are just as good." In the minds of students, they all think that you are friends with them and have a common language psychologically, thus achieving the purpose of education. So are parents. For example, playing chess with children, talking about sports and singing pop songs. Of course, listen to music in moderation. For example, you can listen to music for an hour every week and tell him not to get addicted. No amount will help.