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The child changed from timid and introverted to confident and generous. What changes have been made in the way parents educate their children?
I believe some parents will find that their children have changed, that is, from timid and introverted people to confident and generous people. So what kind of education methods do parents use to make their children have such a change? I think there are several changes in parents' education methods to achieve this effect.

First, from attacking education to praising education.

Many parents like to attack and deny their children when educating them. In this way, children feel inferior, because they feel that they are not good enough, because they are not good enough. Since they are not good enough, they are not as good as other children.

Over time, children will become timid and self-abased, and introverted, unwilling to communicate with others, because they feel that they are not good enough to play with others. Therefore, if parents want their children to become confident and generous, the most important thing is to change from attack education to praise education.

Praising children often will strengthen their self-confidence and make them feel that they are excellent people. In this way, they will gradually become very outgoing and generous, and there will be no obstacles in communicating with others.

Second, from overprotection to letting go.

Many parents always like to overprotect their children when educating them, that is, children. No matter what happens to them, he always stands in front of them. No matter what problems they encounter, he always helps them solve them. He thinks it's good for them, but it's not. You can help her solve the problem at first, but over time, she faces many new problems and can't solve them by herself. What shall we do? Can you still help him?

At this time, parents can't help him, and he can't solve the problem. Over time, he will feel that he is not good enough. Over time, he will feel that he can't do anything well, and he will gradually feel inferior and introverted and unwilling to communicate with others.

Therefore, in the process of education, parents should let their children solve their own problems properly. With his own experience in solving problems, he can solve any problems he encounters in his ordinary communication and make himself confident and generous.

Third, from disciplining children to accompanying guidance.

Many parents like to discipline their children and use management methods when educating them. In this case, they still feel that they are unique, not personal, but dependent on their parents. In this case, their children are more inferior and introverted.

I think a child should receive guided education when receiving education, let him do it by himself, make him independent in some things, and make him confident and generous.