It is the wish of parents all over the world to "look forward to the success of children and the success of women". From a small point of view, this desire can make a person proud and glorious. In a big way, it may create a nation's pride and even become a representative of civilization and progress. Unfortunately, as far as some parents are concerned, it is difficult to realize their desire to make their children successful. The following are my personal views on educating children. 1. Love children, respect children and be their bosom friends. In life, we should respect children, treat them equally, establish a relationship of mutual trust with them and be their bosom friends. Only in this way can we win the trust of children. Parents should love their children, maybe you will say that this truth is simple enough. What parents don't love their children? But some parents' love can't be accepted and recognized by children, so I often give my naughty son a kind hug, a shallow smile, a persuasive persuasion and a small gift, which will naturally make the child feel the love given by his parents and enhance his trust in his parents, so we parents should use love to cultivate his good behavior habits.
2. The premise of good communication between parents and children is to listen to their parents, put down their lofty posture, learn to communicate with their children on an equal footing, and calm down and listen to everything the children have to say. Even if you are busy and tired at this time, you should listen attentively and ask your child from time to time: "Is there anything interesting in school?" Are you satisfied with your performance in class? Did your smiling face increase again today? Whenever I ask my son this question, he is always excited to report everything to me. When he expresses his views on things, I will respect his opinions, discuss with him and give him enough confidence and self-confidence. I think it is very important to cultivate children's character. Listening is an art as well as a kind of learning.
3. Encourage children to dare to meet challenges. Today is an era of fierce competition. We should cultivate children's sense of competition and the spirit of daring to meet challenges from an early age. In study, I often encourage my son to say: You are great, you are really smart, and you can answer such a difficult knowledge correctly. My mother admires you. He was very happy to hear this, which also aroused his enthusiasm for learning. When he is in trouble, I will keep cheering him up. At this time, I will work hard with my children and use reality.
It is inevitable to educate children to face setbacks correctly in their life. Suffering is a great wealth of life. Misfortune and frustration can make people sink, and can also cast people's perseverance and achieve a full life. Suffering is a good teacher in life. He can teach children to be grateful. Treat all problems with a positive attitude and bravely participate in social competition.
5. Cultivate children's adaptability. In practice, according to the changing objective situation, we use our own intelligence and other factors to transform ourselves, so as to realize the unity of subjectivity and objectivity, thus ensuring the ability to carry out Ming practice activities normally. It has been the basic ability to survive since ancient times. Today, in the era of rapid changes and fierce competition in human society, people need stronger adaptability. Whoever has strong adaptability will survive, develop better and succeed.
6. Reading with children
Parents and children can read together, and children can get happiness and satisfaction, feel love and warmth, and sometimes even fall in love with the book itself.
I hope Bian Xiao's introduction will be helpful to everyone.