First, make friends with children and don't take excessive actions.
To educate children correctly, we should put down our posture and take the initiative to be friends with them, instead of always condescending. Parents should often have in-depth and intimate conversations with their children to convey their love for them.
In addition, when a child makes a mistake, parents should first appease the child's emotions, avoid taking excessive actions against the child, help the child calmly analyze and solve problems, and do not indiscriminately stick education.
Rough treatment of children can not only make him realize his mistakes and correct them, but also leave a shadow in his heart and his personality becomes extreme.
Second, spend more time with your children.
No one can replace the love and companionship of parents. Only with the careful teaching and companionship of parents can children get better education and form good habits.
However, in real life, many parents have to ask their grandparents to come over to help look after their children, or just leave their children at home.
In this case, parents can't give their children enough company, which will have a bad influence on his growth.
Therefore, parents should treat their children more attentively, communicate with them more, or make more videos and phone calls to keep abreast of their children's life and study, so that children can feel that they still care and love themselves even if their parents are not around. There are four children at home, including me. They are brothers, sisters and younger sisters. My sister and I are family, and my brother and sister are family. Although they are two families, they often come to our house to play. We don't live in my mother's house, but in my aunt's house with my grandparents. My brother, like my sister, is in the fifth grade this year. The academic performance is average. My brother will go to Taekwondo during the holidays, and my little sister will go to ballet classes. So I lost to them technically. But I don't think my brother should go to Taekwondo. Of course, I didn't say that Taekwondo was bad. Just because I found him violent. He often punches and kicks his family, hitting them on his arms and kicking them on his legs. Especially when I don't agree with him to do something, he will punch me several times. . But I really dare not hit him at will. My grandmother, aunt, grandfather and others will protect him, saying that he is still young, and as a sister, you have to cut him some slack. I really couldn't understand it at that time (whether it was my sister or any child). Why should I let him fight? Moreover, he has a bad temper and often yells at his elders, but they just say a few words. Who wants to hit him? My brother is the only boy in our family, and my grandfather is also a bit patriarchal. But fortunately, my aunt is sober. Especially today, I came home from class outside. My sister and my brother are still running around the house. They made a mess of the house where grandparents lived and the living room. They filled their gloves with water and sprayed them everywhere. I asked them to clean the living room and house and restore them to their original state, but they didn't listen to me at all. I can't help it I can only threaten them with hangers, and they will do something. Then my grandmother went home, and I wanted him to take care of them, but my grandmother asked me to clean the living room and said I wanted you to work. Why didn't you do it? Then the younger sister who just taught her younger brother and sister a lesson became a joke in their mouths.