1. Eliminate parents' fear of their children. When children's grades drop, parents feel anxious and impetuous, beating and scolding their children, causing antagonism between children and parents. At this time, parents should communicate with their children and let them understand their parents' good intentions;

2. Establish self-confidence for children. Success comes from self-confidence. Parents should use a magnifying glass to discover their children's bright spots and help them build confidence in overcoming difficulties, which is more conducive to their growth.

3. Grow up with children and be their bosom friends. With the progress of society and the rapid development of science and technology, people have to learn more and more new knowledge. As parents, we should always embody the spirit of seeking knowledge and making progress, set an example for our children, and let them learn from their parents and be curious;

4. Communicate with children often, understand their thoughts, and try to shorten the distance from their hearts. Listening to children's confidences, truly understanding children and educating them to grow up healthily are parents' obligations and effective help for their growth.

Don't spoil your children. Spoiling children will not help their growth, but will hurt them.