The achievements of Jews are mainly attributed to Jewish education.
Jewish education mainly refers to Jewish family education, not school education. It means that Jewish parents often communicate with their children and guide them in the process, so that their children can establish good ideological and emotional enlightenment.
Jews have many well-known educational stories. Today, let's take a look at one of them, make an in-depth analysis and see what enlightenment it can give us.
This is a short story of a father and son in an ordinary Jewish family.
My son's name is John. When he was 4 years old, one day he and his sister were playing hide-and-seek in the living room. They had a good time. Father picked up little John, put him on the sofa, and then stretched out his hands to make a gesture of receiving him and told him to jump down. Little John jumped down without hesitation. Just as he was about to catch his father, his father retracted his hands. John fell to the floor and burst into tears. Little John turned to his mother sitting on the sofa for help. Her mother sat casually and did not help him. She just smiled and said, Oh, good dad and bad dad! ? Father stood by and looked at little John who had been cheated with mocking eyes.
For many parents, it is very unreasonable to treat their children like this. This is cheating and abusing children, even parents cheating children, which is cruel. However, do you think this phenomenon often happens in our real life? What can we get from this short story?
First, let children receive frustration education.
Physical frustration:
Make a gesture of catching the child with both hands to trick the child into jumping. Usually, this kid will come at me. It will be painful to jump to the ground, but Jewish parents do not pity their children on the surface, but also sprinkle salt and ridicule on their children's wounds. This is real life. Some people hurt you, instead of comforting you, they will ridicule you. Jews let children learn to be closer to social life.
Parents didn't help John up. It can be understood that in life, sometimes when you encounter difficulties, others will not help you, even their parents will not help you, and even their parents will not help you, mainly relying on themselves. How cruel and close to reality. This kind of education not only helps children learn to be strong and independent, but also tells them to solve their own problems. Such children, even without the help of their parents, can still adapt quickly, are not discouraged in the face of setbacks, and will not give up even without the help of others. They will try their best to solve their own problems, and they will not have the idea of being world-weary or world-weary.