In China's family education, it is popular for parents to play the bad COP, and it is usually the father who plays the role of a serious critic of educators. Over time, it has evolved into a kind of "influence education".
Many fathers in China are a little male chauvinist, and they will use "patriarchy" to force their children to obey their own instructions, "Do as I say" and "You must listen to me".
Such a father, there is a big gap between father and child, the father is condescending, and the child is weak and helpless. Growing up is either full of resistance or timidity, and the result is more rebellion.