Parents, from the moment they give birth to their children, have the responsibility of bearing and nurturing, and also bear the heavy responsibility of "education".

The so-called "three-year-old, six-year-old" character education is very important in children's childhood. For about three years from the age of 0, brain cells continued to proliferate.

From the perspective of brain science, the number of brain nerve cells reaches its peak at the age of 3 ~4, and 10 is "stereotyped" after the age of 0.

Therefore, 3 years old, 7 years old and 10 years old are not only the turning point of brain development, but also the golden period of strengthening potential.

Parents should not only cultivate their children's sound physical and mental development and safe and healthy growth, but also let their children establish a good personality from infancy to shape a sound personality.

Character includes six items: respect, honesty, responsibility, courage, diligence and integrity.

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respect

Respect should not only respect others, but also know how to respect yourself, regardless of age, nationality, race or gender.

Teach children to have empathy in a caring way.

Be generous and kind to others, take the initiative to care, share your own interests, and even take the initiative to help those in need.

Listen attentively, don't interrupt, be polite, don't abuse, don't curse or laugh at others, don't play tricks or bully others, which is the embodiment of respecting others.

Cultivate children to observe the feelings of others, and children will know how to be considerate, help and understand others.

honest

Let yourself have the ability to be trusted by others, let others feel safe and handle things with confidence.

Honesty and not lying are the basis of communication with people.

The reason why children lie is mostly because they want to cover up some facts and avoid being scolded. We should ask the reason why children lie before we can make a more suitable solution.

Be responsible for ...

Don't blame others for your mistakes, but be brave enough to face and finish what you have done.

You must do what you promised, be responsible for your actions, have the ability of self-reflection, and have the courage to make mistakes and bear the consequences of the incident.

The sense of responsibility is actually to cultivate "self-discipline" and let children develop self-demand, self-management ability, spontaneous ability and emotional management ability.

Older children should learn to be responsible for others and for themselves.

brave

Courage means doing something when you think it is right, even if it is difficult. CEO Pan Lihua explained that when a child bravely carries out something meaningful, it can not only improve his own ability to carry out things and train him to solve problems, but also make others sit up and take notice of his performance and think that this child is trustworthy.

diligent

Diligence refers to making good use of time, planning appropriate steps, trying to finish the work as quickly as possible, focusing on the goal, constantly modifying and adjusting, and finally thoroughly implementing and realizing the goal.

Diligence is an attitude towards life and an outlook on life.

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honest

The most direct meaning of integrity is to have the courage to stick to your beliefs and follow your conscience.

Dare to stick to the truth, dare to tell the truth and do practical things, and have the ability to stick to what you think is right.

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Parents have the responsibility to make their children make positive contributions to society.

While writing this article, I told my children: You may not be excellent, but you must have good character.

The cultivation of good character is more important than how much money you earn every year.