20 18165438+1October18, Yu, chairman of new oriental, delivered a speech at the conference on learning ability: if the standard for girls in China to find a man is to recite Tang poetry and Song poetry, then all men in China will recite Tang poetry and Song poetry. If the standard for China girls to find a man is to make money, no matter whether his conscience is good or not, then all the boys in China will become men with bad conscience but earn a lot of money. So in fact, whether a country is good or not lies in women. Now it's because the fall of women in China leads to the fall of the whole country.
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Yu's "theory of female depravity" was immediately strongly opposed by women and caused a national discussion. For this incident, I think what excites women most is this sentence: "Now the fall of women in China has led to the fall of the whole country." I blame women for the decline and fall of a country, which I think is very unfair.
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In various attacks, I apologized twice for my inappropriate remarks.
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As a melon-eating girl, when I saw all kinds of articles attacking Yu yesterday, I was looking for the complete video of his speech and wanted to see what his whole speech was about, because when we look at something, the easiest thing to do is to take it out of context, but unfortunately we didn't find the complete video.
However, after watching the video of his speech and his apology to Weibo, despite his improper speech and loose logic, he easily defined women in China, labeled them and killed them with a stick. What he really wants to explain behind this passage is "the importance of women to education, and even determines the national quality of a country."
I agree with that. Because women are pregnant with life, before the child is 6 years old, the most important link is with the mother, which is determined by physiological factors. From conception in October to life feeding, one after another, as a father, can't replace a mother. At this stage, the sense of security and unconditional love given by the mother will affect the child's life. It is often said that you are old at the age of 3 and old at the age of 7. The influence of women on children is self-evident.
Moreover, we have to admit that women have been the main undertakers and implementers of children's education throughout the ages.
20 15 Shanghai academy of social sciences made a survey and found that the proportion of children's education mainly taken care of by fathers has dropped from 30% ten years ago to 20% now.
In this context, the importance of women's education for their children is even more self-evident. The national quality of a country cannot be separated from family education, school education and social education, so it is not groundless to say that women affect the quality of the whole country.
Napoleon once said that "the hand that pushes the cradle is the hand that pushes the earth", and only women gently push the cradle. It can be seen that the mother's education and enlightenment directly affect the next generation.
The importance of women to children and society is beyond doubt. It is precisely because of this that Yu said that "the fall of women in China now leads to the fall of the whole country." . Although it makes people angry and the conclusion is too general, as a woman, we have to admit that our quality determines the quality of children, and children are the future of the country. This is a kind of pressure and a heavy responsibility, but as a mother, it is very lucky, because we can influence every little life and use our wisdom to make our children grow better and better. We have made great contributions. Raising children is a laborious job. We need to constantly reflect on the influence we have brought to our children, so we should accept criticism and correction from others if we don't do well.
Therefore, I think that as a woman who pursues fairness and equality, when she sees such remarks, she should not be easily angered by such general remarks, but should treat his remarks rationally. What does he want to express? The so-called equality has never been shouted out, nor has it been forced by men to admit it, but it has been brought about by our women's strong and confident attitude of accepting all kinds of praise and criticism.
Look at his remarks rationally, not blinded by gender discrimination, women's rights and equality between men and women. We have our own rational thinking. Did China really fall? Are women in China really depraved? I believe everyone can see that the only stage of a country's development is degeneration? Are some women's differences in mate selection and values a reflection of all women's depravity?
If this is the logic, then all times are degenerate times, and women of all times are degenerate. Because every era has its drawbacks, and every era, there are always women with different values.
Even if Yu's logic and remarks are so inappropriate, I still see his recognition of the importance of women, so why should we bite his male chauvinism?