The first of the eight key words for parents to educate their children is to let them establish an optimistic attitude.
1. Accepting reality is the first step towards optimism.
2. Cultivate an optimistic personality and let children face the misfortunes in life calmly.
3. Let the children keep a normal heart.
If children spend a lot of energy on anxiety, they can't play their innate ability.
5. Does a sense of humor look like it? Trick? Actually? Very skillful?
The second key is to let children learn to be grateful and tolerant.
1, being narrow-minded will only make children suffer for life.
2. With love, you have the motivation to seek knowledge and beauty.
3. A prank meeting? Trouble? Guide children to correct in time.
4. Eliminate the cruelty of children in time.
5, know how to be grateful, will grow.
The third key is to cultivate children's courage to face setbacks.
1, the child is fragile, teach him to face up to failure.
2. Cultivating children's willpower can't be ignored.
It is difficult for children unfamiliar with setbacks to integrate into society.
4. Replace inferiority with self-confidence.
5. Always blame the child's failure. What will the child become? Incompetence?
6. Praise your child, but don't overdo it.
The fourth key is to teach children to protect themselves.
1, teach children some safety knowledge and deal with injuries calmly.
Children who depend on their parents will inevitably degenerate.
Children are in danger of being swallowed up by life at any time because of their lack of social skills.
4. Overprotection equals? Hurt?
5. improve your child's? Immune? , calmly face the temptation
The fifth key is to let children dare to dream.
1, have a dream to create.
2. Don't scold children? Talking in your sleep?
3. When a child has a dream, urge him to take a step towards it.
4. refuse the child to ask? Why? , is to cut off the wings of his thinking.
5. Be kind to children's interests
6. Creative children often have a Mercedes-Benz mind.
The sixth key is to cultivate children's good communication skills.
1, only children who know social etiquette can have good relationships.
2, children are good at talking, which can best attract the interest and attention of others.
3. Respecting others means respecting yourself.
If the child dares to admit his mistake, the mistake has been changed by half.
5. Cooperation ability is more important than knowledge.
6. Children who know how to listen have personality charm.
The seventh key is to teach children to use money reasonably.
1. The sooner children learn to use pocket money, the easier it is for them to earn money when they grow up.
2. Properly handle the children's lucky money.
3. Develop the habit of saving so that children can benefit for life.
It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish.
5. Correct children's psychology of blindly comparing.
The eighth key is to help children know themselves correctly.
1, encourage children to communicate with others actively and eliminate their loneliness.
2. Long-term shyness makes children prone to inferiority complex.
3, learn to appreciate others, will appreciate yourself.
4. Let children discover one of their own advantages every day.
5. Do you understand? Give up? Will something happen? Have to?
Three key words of family education 1, companionship
No matter how busy parents are, they should try their best to accompany their children.
Parents and children eat together, talk together, and communicate and learn all the time. An interesting study in western psychology found that children's vocabulary is directly related to their parents' communication at home, especially at the dinner table.
Parents are talking about politics, and children may be interested in politics in the future; Parents are complaining, and children may also feel complaining. Many parents think it is meaningless to talk to their children more. In fact, what parents say, even if they don't understand it today, will become an important part of their brains.
More importantly, companionship and living together will determine whether the whole family has a common destiny. The new educational reform puts forward a proposition: reading, writing and living together. The keynote is companionship.
Step 2 read
I have a mother who reads to me.
The seeds of reading are sown in the family. The reading manual quotes a poem:? You may have unlimited wealth, boxes of jewels and boxes of gold. But you will never be richer than me. I have a mother who reads to me. ? Reading is an important source for children to have a rich spiritual life. The cultivation of reading ability, reading interest and reading habits begins at home.
The secret of childhood is far away from us, and so is the value of children's books. Children's books quietly hide the best things of human beings in the fate of human beings and animals, so as to construct children's values. The initial reading is parent-child reading, which is read by parents to their children. Because children can't read, reading is more about looking at pictures. Children first know the world through pictures. Children's books are not only edifying, but also healing. Children have corresponding books to solve any problems, which are more useful than reading and speaking 10 thousand lessons.
The most important thing is that once you get into the habit of reading as a child, you will take the initiative to find books to read in the future.
Reading has an appetite. At first, children were allowed to eat KFC and McDonald's. Gradually, they don't like to eat other things. He is only interested in KFC and McDonald's. He doesn't know that there are other beautiful things in the world. The same is true of reading. After reading some bad books, I have no appreciation for other good books.
Step 3 get used to it
The success of education depends on having good habits.