First, parents should educate their children in this way, and have a certain heart of comparison, indicating that children want to be recognized by others, and parents can understand.

High school children, aged 14 or 15, have their own aesthetic level and know some brands. So when they see other students wearing famous brands, they will also ask their parents to buy them for themselves. If you don't get them, you will lose your temper. This is what we call the heart of comparison. Parents should not criticize their children directly, but should tell them that they were young and understand their psychology. This is a kind of psychology that they want to be envied and recognized by others. This idea is not completely wrong. Parents understand their children's thoughts very well. If parents say these words to their children, the children will definitely look at their parents with new eyes and be willing to listen to their parents.

Second, I hope that children can use this comparison psychology in their studies, strive for strength and competitiveness in their studies, and win the envy of their classmates.

Children in high school face a lot of pressures and tests. Parents should educate their children. During this period, the comparison between students should be more than learning and self-motivation, not material. Parents patiently tell their children that if they study hard, surpass many classmates and get good grades, this is the correct comparison. In learning, if one's own children have this kind of energy, other children will definitely get rid of the trend of keeping up with the joneses, then the whole class will be a particularly United and excellent class group.

Third, parents should set an example instead of comparing themselves, so as to set an example for their children.

Examples speak louder than words? As parents, we should use practical actions to infect our children. If parents always compare with others and educate their children not to compare, the children will not be convinced. Parents can compare their abilities and happiness with others? I believe children can learn from their parents in this way.