Although many parents now know that they can't ask the boss to have a second child all the time, it is unfair to them and is not conducive to cultivating their sense of security. However, when two children are in conflict, or the second child is wronged and crying, most parents may still be tempted to blame the boss and ask them to let go of their younger brothers and sisters.
Sometimes I think that we may be a little demanding of our boss. Apart from their brothers and sisters, they are only children of a few years old. It is unfair and difficult for them to ask a few-year-old child to be patient everywhere, or to ask them to suppress their own needs.
Therefore, when two children have conflicts, parents can try the following methods:
1, don't rush in yet, see if the child can solve it by himself. In fact, this is the best opportunity for children to learn to communicate. If they want to play together, they must find a way to repair their relationship, either by peaceful coexistence through their own affairs or by accommodating each other's needs.
2. Don't criticize the boss in a hurry, find out the ins and outs of the matter before making a judgment. If it's the boss's fault, it's natural to criticize, but if it's the second one, don't hide it. Let the second learn to apologize to the boss.
In short, while taking care of the second child, parents should also try to take care of the boss's needs and emotions. Don't let children feel that their parents don't love them when they have younger brothers and sisters.
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