Teach children to be patient and meticulous when studying. Don't punish some children rudely because of their little mistakes. If you punish your children like this, they will think that you are a fierce mother and will gradually dislike you. Don't put too much pressure on children.

1, don't spoil the children.

As a single mother, she tends to pamper her children more, rely on them for everything and try to meet all their requirements. I'd rather suffer myself than my children suffer a little injustice.

In fact, this will lead children to be self-centered, become selfish, bossy and willful "little bullies", lack sympathy and sense of responsibility, do not know how to respect others, and even look down on their mothers who raised them with hardships.

2. Cultivate children's sense of independence.

Most single mothers live alone with their children, who are their only support, which makes them overindulge their children and do everything for them in life.

Afraid of what happens to children also limits their activities. In fact, this practice will make the child lack independent consciousness. Once he leaves his mother, he doesn't know how to face the difficulties and setbacks in life. Therefore, mothers need to let go of their hands and feet, let their children undertake some things independently, and cultivate their sense of independence.

3, simple and rude is not desirable

Contrary to special care and over-protection, some single mothers are simple and rude due to the double pressure of work and life, so that their children live in fear all day, and their personality development is seriously inhibited, forming such bad qualities as timidity, withdrawn, stubbornness and self-distrust. ?

Reluctant to go home for fear of punishment and looking for "warmth" outside, it is easy to be dragged down by bad guys and embark on the road of crime. Therefore, single mothers should not be simple and rude in educating their children, but should pay attention to correct guidance.

4. Let children participate in social activities.

Children from single-parent families often need to be discriminated and prejudiced by their own society, so they are easy to become introverted, depressed, inferior and even withdrawn. Mothers should pay more attention to communication with their children, pay attention to their emotional needs and provide ideological education for them.