1, take the initiative to talk to your child about your feelings. Parents can try to express their inner feelings first. By actively expressing their feelings, it helps to guide children to express their inner feelings.

2. Try to establish an equal relationship and let children feel respected. In fact, the rebellious behavior of children at this stage is mainly because independent personality is not recognized. Parents should establish an equal relationship with their children and let them feel full respect, which is also conducive to communication with their children.

3. Pay more attention to the advantages of children and encourage them. Fourteen-year-old boys are usually sensitive and prone to inferiority complex, so they will want to express themselves through some rebellious behaviors. If parents pay more attention to their children's advantages and constantly encourage their children to gain enough self-confidence, it can not only alleviate their inferiority complex, but also help parents communicate with their children better.

4. Pay attention to children's hobbies and communicate with them more. Fourteen-year-old boys are generally reluctant to communicate with their parents too much, but if parents find their children's hobbies as a breakthrough and communicate with their children more, their children will be more willing to communicate with their parents, and at the same time, their children will feel respected, which will reduce their rebellious mentality.