What are the adverse effects of crying poor education on children, which is worthy of all parents' reflection? Calling for poor culture and education will narrow children's horizons and patterns. In junior high school, a classmate wanted to buy a shoulder bag. Her mother said that these old ones can still be used. First, use them. Our family has no money and no money to buy it. The schoolbag used by this classmate is made of calico by his mother. This is a shoulder bag with a long history. In primary and secondary schools, students still feel quite good carrying this schoolbag, but they are middle school students, giving people the impression that they are a primary and secondary school student, which is very embarrassing.

In fact, the standard of her family is ok, and she can't afford a backpack. Students in junior high school for three years spent their time carrying this shoulder bag. Sometimes I invite her to play, and my old classmates get together and say that my family is limited and I have no money to play.

Since childhood, due to lack of material, I have become a little suspicious and often think about things. After graduating from college, this classmate earned more than 10,000 yuan, but he didn't enjoy a relaxed and happy life and never attended a colleague's party. I seldom buy beautiful clothes and high-quality skin care products on weekdays, let alone travel.

Sometimes when she wants to save money, she will think of her childhood experience and always feel that she has limited conditions, needs to save money and is not worthy of enjoying a high-quality life. In the eyes of colleagues, relatives and friends, she is very petty, calculating, greedy and cheap, and has no friends around.

Although she looks good and has a good job, she didn't find a freewheeling boyfriend, because he felt insecure and always spent time in doubt and suspicion. Several boyfriends separated in a quarrel.

Since childhood, parents have conveyed the concept of being too poor without money, and children may form a mentality of not willing to spend money. And then affect your cognitive judgment. Parents often say that their children are poor, which is not a good educational method, and seems to be poisoning their children.

Material poverty is only temporary, but spiritual poverty is lifelong. If parents keep telling their children that their family is poor for a long time, their children will form a logical thinking of ordinary people. Once trapped in this concept of poverty, even if there is more capital afterwards, children will still hide poverty mentally.

The best way for parents is to be honest with each other and talk openly about love with their children. After reading such a short story, two mothers took their children to the supermarket and saw a bright red car in the supermarket. The children clamored for food. The two mothers looked at the price, 100 a catty, which is really too expensive. Both mothers showed reluctance, but their practices were quite different. A mother told her baby that this kind of fruit was too expensive for her mother to buy.

Another mother told her children that the car has just come into the market and the price is too expensive. We will buy a few less until the price is low and buy a few more to eat. The two mothers have different types of practices and firmly believe that their children's experiences are completely different.