The former "educates" children into the "talents" they want, so they work hard on ways and means; The latter helps children become what they want to be and take the road they want to go, so they work hard on encouragement and support.
Overbearing takes finding and solving problems as the train of thought, and dreams of finally conquering all problems on the road of educating people; The idea of Wang Dao is to cultivate self-interest and benefit others, and to be a saint inside and a king outside, aiming at enlightening children to grow up and leave.
Overbearing forces children not to go astray, and kingly supports children to take the right path.
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Is your education overbearing Still king?
-"Hundred Years of Tree People"