Adhere to the principle of positive education. Positive education is a reasonable and correct guidance or encouragement, focusing on persuasion, without sarcasm, sarcasm or reprimand. Adhere to the standards of fairness and respect. Parents should communicate with their children in a fair and equal manner, and don't always brag about their true identity as parents. Adhere to the principle of caring and cherishing. Caring and cherishing can start from the time before children enter puberty, and gradually care about their daily life, study and social development, and understand each other.

Understand and value. Fully understanding rebellious psychology is a normal psychological feature of adolescent children. Don't think that some children's rebellious behavior on weekdays is deliberately unable to get along with their parents, or even that it is a moral problem, and blame and criticize at will. Whether it is a boy or a girl, the physical problems of children in this period are very obvious. For example, children may have masturbation, masturbation and many other problems, which will fluctuate with emotions. How to guide parents should pay attention to countermeasures. Parents should remember that positive guidance, persuasion, praise and encouragement are always more effective than criticism and blame.

To treat adolescent children, we must first accept the reality that children have grown up, change the teaching mode of treating children in the past, and criticize and reprimand children quietly. Secondly, we should learn to cultivate adolescent children's mentality, basic common sense and family education methods, and teach according to students' own personality characteristics. Third, don't educate children when they are grumpy, but wait patiently for their emotions to stabilize before communicating with them. Rebellion is a development problem, and children will be fine when they become natural. We should learn to think!

There is nothing wrong with the arrival of children's rebellious period, which shows that children have grown up, which is a natural development trend. At this time, his physiology, mental state and logical thinking will undergo great changes, and he will be anxious, confused, uneasy and confused. At this time, parents and teachers should understand and assist him. Parents should also have the ability to improve themselves, such as reading some books and short videos related to adolescent family education in advance. In order to deal with the problem immediately and properly, it is also necessary to encourage grandparents and brothers and sisters at home, so that children can successfully survive adolescent rebellion with the help of the whole family.