First, Sun Li knows how to respect children, so he can get everyone's recognition and praise.
I believe there are many families with two or three children, including many star families. Deng Chao and his wife, Sun Li, have a son and a daughter, which are the envy of many people. In the eyes of most people, when educating their children, many parents will emphasize that their brothers and sisters should make way for their younger brothers and sisters, as if this is natural. But Sun Li believes that this will undoubtedly bring great pressure to children, especially brothers and sisters. Let them play with toys first, and leave the delicious ones to them first, otherwise others will say that they are not sensible and unfair. Sun Li stressed that children should be respected and listened to. Don't always look at problems from the perspective of adults. Members of families with many children deserve equal love.
Second, Sun Li will not impose the ideas of adults on children, so that children can have their own real ideas.
Sun Li shares his daily life with his son and so on. She feels that, as she said, many adults are biased against things. For example, a sister who shares things with her brother or sister is particularly sensible. It is natural for an elder brother to care about his elder sister. Such prejudice makes the boss feel very frustrated and under great pressure. Sun Li understands children's thoughts, so she will not impose such unfair thoughts on them, but will understand them and tell them to express their true feelings, which is what children should have.
Third, when educating children, Sun Li is particularly patient and praiseworthy.
Perhaps in the eyes of most people, Sun Li's son and the like all have such pressure, but the child is oversensitive and parents don't have to care. But Sun Li was particularly patient. He will not let this matter fall on the child's heart like this, but patiently enlighten the child and find a way to solve it. This way of parenting is worth learning.