Baby's milk is less, and baby's milk powder, diaper and baby food supplement are also a lot of expenses. In addition, my husband works overtime every day and takes care of the children day and night, and no one has changed hands in the two stocks. Sometimes he would secretly hide under the covers in the middle of the night and cry, but after crying, he still had to play 12. For three years, she has been thinking that when her children go to kindergarten, she will go out and look for a job, hoping that she will not be abandoned by the times.
Xiao Zhao (pen name), who took the initiative to become a full-time mother, is my college classmate and the only one in our dormitory who studied for a master's degree in 985. After graduation, I naturally entered a private enterprise with an annual income of 30k. Someone we've always admired. But after giving birth to the baby, we thought that she would soon enter the workplace and become a working woman. Unexpectedly, six months after the baby, she boldly tried to make sure that she would go home to take care of the baby.
This made everyone unexpected. Her parents in her hometown are too muddy to help the wall. If I had known that your choice was diligence, you wouldn't have to work hard as long as you were willing to study for a master's degree.
However, her full-time baby care at home is not the same as that of a full-time mother of general value. First, she takes care of the baby in various effective ways, which saves the cost of early education for children. Second, I shoot videos and send articles in my spare time, and then I became a fashion blogger of parenting education with over one million fans in two years. Every moonlight's self-media income is above that 40k, which is higher in private enterprises than before, and the duration is more free.
From the resistance of relatives at the beginning to the strong support of relatives today, she proved with practical actions that even stay-at-home mothers can shine brilliantly. Many people say that stay-at-home mothers are women with low academic qualifications who are unwilling to improve themselves, or rural women who have no job and naturally become stay-at-home mothers after having children, surrounded by their husbands and children.
But we have to admit that many highly educated women have also become full-time mothers. In order to take care of children and families. Many old people said, "Why do you read so many books? In the end, I didn't become a housewife like those who don't study? " Some people say that being a full-time mother is the hardest job in the world. It is your duty to do well, and you deserve it if you don't do well. However, some people just blew up the helpless choice and lived out the value of the king.
However, I used to be a stay-at-home mother for a while, from resigning in the third trimester to giving birth at home to a child who came out to work after 1 year and 5 months. For two years, I became a full-time mother, and my family status gradually went from high to low, and my mental state collapsed again and again. And all the changes started when I didn't want to stop. After the baby was born, I gradually began to work from the media. On the one hand, the pressure of family economic work is really great. Husband's salary and mother-in-law's monthly allowance barely maintain our daily life, and we are still eating the previous budget.