Physical contact is indispensable.

When children encounter setbacks and self-doubt, no amount of love words can sometimes compare with a hug and a pat on the back, so that children can intuitively feel love and encouragement.

Many parents didn't often hug when they were young, so they didn't have this habit. Our generation pays more attention to children's psychological education, so we consciously remind ourselves that if we have more physical contact with children, we can feel warmth and decompression.

Spiritual communication is indispensable.

This generation of children are not worried about food and clothing, and they are more Buddhist about material things. On the contrary, mental stress is greater, and there are many channels to receive complex information. For children who have not yet formed a complete personality, it is more dangerous and easier to go astray. Children's irritability, rudeness, arrogance, or sensitivity and inferiority are all manifestations of a little psychological lack of love.

Parents can focus on the spiritual communication with their children, pay attention to their inner feelings, and perhaps get to know him better.

Empathy is indispensable.

Seeing things from the perspective of children and adults will lead to completely different conclusions. Some parents tell their children that they have no pattern and look at the problem one-sidedly. In fact, this is how people know the world when they are immature. Parents say that children will not only broaden the pattern, but also cause their self-doubt and inferiority.

Seeking common ground while reserving differences and understanding need to be engraved in parents' minds. The purpose of education is to cultivate his correct and positive values and personality. He will imitate your empathy and understanding, and he will think that this is what he should do. He will naturally see things more mature in the future.

Appropriate weakness cannot be less.

It is necessary to convey to the child the concept of equality and mutual care in this family, cultivate his sense of responsibility and know how to be grateful.

Education in Huo Siyan is worth learning. She took Uh-huh to Starbucks and asked the children to buy her an iced coffee. Mm-hmm. I bought her a cup of hot coffee, saying that my mother who drinks ice will have a stomachache. Usually, uh-huh, he is also a little gentleman who takes care of his mother's feelings.

Only by giving children the opportunity to show can they promote their growth.

Childishness and childishness are indispensable.

When facing their children, many parents often seriously replace the role of elders to educate their children, which will push them further and further. When children recall their childhood, you are a strict elder and don't feel much kindness.

Playing jokes with children at ordinary times, keeping childlike innocence, maintaining a relaxed and warm parent-child relationship and making children happier in childhood are the wealth of his life.