About the selected model essay "Don't lose in family education"? First of all, I am very grateful to the school for recommending a thought-provoking good reading-"Don't lose in family education" to parents.
? I'm ashamed to say that I never seem to have systematically read the authoritative professional family teaching before, so after I got this book, I couldn't wait to browse the book catalogue and found that it is an excellent book combining family education theory with practice. The catalogue alone is enough to shock me!
? The book contains not only the analysis and guidance of educational experts, but also real cases and many successful tutoring experiences. In the process of learning, I have seen many misunderstandings in educating children. What impressed me deeply was that the preface of the book wrote: "Children call for our change."
? First of all, after reading this book, I understand that when a mother sees her child's shortcomings, she can't always emphasize and speak with emotion, because too much emphasis will weaken her child's self-confidence. As parents, we make a common mistake in the process of communicating with our children, that is, we criticize our children without talking about ways and occasions. Parents should ask their children with a gentle attitude and a peaceful tone, understand the reasons, and don't criticize them indiscriminately. It is best to be one-on-one, which is often more acceptable to children, so as not to hurt their self-esteem. A mother who screams at her children all day will gradually lose her prestige in front of them. We should get rid of bad temper and impatience.
? Secondly, I learned to let go. Since the child entered the school, I, like all parents, have asked about the child's learning situation every day, understood the child's learning progress, accompanied the child to do homework, and taught her to correct her mistakes. Over time, children do their homework to deal with things, and throw them directly to me for inspection after they finish writing. As a result, the imagination of not carefully examining and losing questions often appears in exams. Although it is inevitable that the child will be left behind, it is also the result of my arrangement for replacement. I decided to let go in the future, stop staring at her and checking her homework, which will help improve my self-care ability and cultivate my sense of independence.
? Thirdly, I think it is very important to give children a happy environment for growing up. The relationship between parents and children should be friends and playmates, so that children can experience the exchange of feelings, the happiness of life and the truth of being a man in play.
? Finally, I think that in the education of children, they should be allowed to learn based on interest. The motivation of learning is interest. As long as they are interested, children will have the motivation to learn for a long time. Of course, we won't satisfy the interests of all children. Selectively satisfy children's interest in learning when their financial capacity permits. This is what parents should do.
? Parents are children's first teachers, and their influence on children is immeasurable. How to educate children by scientific methods? As parents, we have been looking for it. After reading this book, I found a good way to solve the problem.
? Thanks again for the help and inspiration provided by Family Education Don't Lose.
? Comment on Don't Lose in Family Education
? It is said that children are the pride of their parents, and they are afraid of eating in their mouths and melting in their hands, so they spoil the little emperor and princess. As a parent, I resolutely put an end to this kind of education. I have always thought that a stick makes a dutiful son, and strictness makes a true talent. But by the fourth grade, my children's grades still didn't improve, which made me very anxious. What's the matter?
? In the evening, my son came back and took out a book from his schoolbag-"Don't lose in family education", flipped through it and put it aside. It was not until my son said that he would write a review that I picked it up and read it carefully. I am fascinated by this book. Before eating, watching TV and going to bed, I held this book and couldn't put it down. Over the past few years, I have been busy with my work as a parent and neglected the education of my children. Reading this book really puts me to shame. This book mainly talks about the importance of family education in children's growth, which is exactly what our parents lack. I often severely criticize my child for not studying well, and then I think he listened when I saw him bow his head in shame, as if my education had worked. However, my children's grades are getting worse and worse, which makes me like an ant on hot bricks. However, how to educate children is always put on hold because of work.
? Half way through the book, I know that children's growth will vary greatly with different educational methods. Nowadays, the factors that affect children's behavior are becoming more and more complicated. However, in the process of children's moral constitution, the role of family education can not be underestimated, and parents' moral behavior standards determine and influence children's behavior principles to a considerable extent. I often bring home negative emotions at work, but I don't know that this has gradually affected my children, making them study negatively and even doubt themselves. Whether in life or in study, parents are role models for their children, which affects their growth invisibly. Parents often urge their children to study at home, which is also a sign of their diligence. It is not enough to talk without practice. Sometimes you have to pay your own actions, care about your child's study, and know if your child has made progress, and whether he has been praised or criticized by the teacher at school. When the child comes home, it is not for him to do his homework at once, but for him to sit down and talk, knowing what he thinks, what he lacks and what his parents can do. ...
? After reading this book, I know that what we have done is far from enough. To be a qualified parent, we must constantly improve our own quality, update the concept of family education and master the knowledge and methods of superstitious family education. We deeply understand that parents should assist their children, let them learn how to behave and let them continue to behave badly. The cultivation of personality and conduct is an extremely long process. The persistent pursuit of truth, goodness and beauty, ardent enthusiasm and frank feelings will always be the strength of our parents' personality. We require our children to be honest, sincere, natural, upright, honest, frank and cruel. I must do it first. As Freud Bell, a German educator, said: The fate of children is in the hands of parents.
? Let's join hands as parents, do everything for children, hold up tomorrow's sun, create a happy life for children and create a bright future for the Chinese nation.
About the selected model essay "Don't lose in family education"? I have been subscribing to the book "Don't lose in family education" since my children went to kindergarten. Because my children are educated by Montessori, they learn mainly through play. I don't pay attention to this book at all. I just look through it in my spare time. Since the children entered the school, I, like all parents, ask about their learning situation every day to understand their learning progress. When helping children with their homework, I sometimes feel speechless about so many unexplained "why" on their faces, so I have to answer with a tough attitude: "There is no reason, even if you say it, you don't understand. This is the rule. Just remember it ... "It pains me to see the child's wronged face.
? Read the book "Don't lose in family education" again, which is in the interactive activity class between home and school taught by Mr. Huang, the child's head teacher. This class and this book have benefited me a lot, and I deeply realize that without good educational methods, the fate of children's lives will be changed. I am deeply touched by the sentence "There are no children who can't teach well, only parents who can't teach well" in the book. As parents, the task is arduous. What is a good way of family education? There are no parents who are naturally successful, and there are no parents who don't need to learn. Only by constantly learning and mastering the knowledge and methods of family science education for children can parents play their role. The book also introduces many examples of the success or failure of family education, which makes me understand that children should not only learn cultural knowledge from teachers, but also have a sound personality and healthy psychology.
? After studying with the teacher at school for a day, when I get home, I must first affirm the effectiveness of my children's study, encourage them more and help them with their homework. I don't force him to memorize questions he doesn't understand. I will try my best to give him an explanation as simple as possible in a gentle tone. If he really doesn't understand, I will tell him that the problem is not because his mother can't explain it clearly, but because the child is too young and has learned knowledge. Give children some freedom of self-control, imagination and understanding. If it really doesn't work, ask the teacher for help. Call the teacher and let the children communicate with the teacher themselves. In this process, children feel that they have been respected and affirmed, and they will be more interested in learning. Sometimes he can express his views on our controversial homework. I only gave him a little guidance. If he doesn't listen, let him write the answer himself. After the homework corrected by the teacher was handed out the next day, I watched it again with him. He was deeply impressed by the red "××" typed by the teacher on his homework. This mistake will never happen again. In this way, in the book "Don't lose in family education", I learned the skills of scientifically educating children to succeed, and also learned the warning from failed education cases to avoid repeating the same mistakes. Children gradually become independent and their self-confidence gradually increases. My children and I are learning and growing together, experiencing the emotional communication between the two sides all the time, enjoying the happiness of life, learning the truth of being a man, growing up and being happy.
? Thanks to the book "Don't lose in family education", it helped me find the most suitable education method for my children, and he will surely be more and more worthy of my pride! I will try my best to make my children have a wonderful and happy childhood.