Once I saw a father loudly threatening a fourth-grade boy at the school gate: "You think that if the teacher doesn't care, you can bully others, and I won't spare you. If you bully him again, I will kill you. " The parent scolded the boy indiscriminately, and the boy cried with fear. Onlookers won't think his children are doormats. What is the quality of a man's verbal attack on a child? His parents are behind, and the children are making trouble in class. A few days ago, the boy's mother just came to see the teacher. The teacher criticized the child realistically, and the opening scene appeared.
Parents listen to their children's one-sided words, causing parents' dissatisfaction with their teachers. Don't think that children will avoid their own mistakes just because they are young. If something goes wrong, teachers will investigate and collect evidence and find witnesses. Really, being a teacher is not that simple.
Parents have different perceptions of the same thing. As far as homework is concerned, some children have a good habit of doing homework and finish it in a short time. Some children dawdle and affect their sleep. And great parents. Children are disobedient in class, and teachers communicate with parents. Parents say that children don't need to be so good and happy.
Now a child who graduated from primary school, when he was in the third grade, his father and grandmother came to school. They are hysterical in the office, swearing at the head teacher, who is a little girl who has worked for a long time. When she saw this situation, the headmaster and the director came and finally persuaded them. The reason is that the parents of two children think the teacher is unfair.
Here, what I want to say is that this doting child has been studying poorly in recent years and has been disobedient until he graduated from primary school.
I can say that teachers want to make their students better and have a stronger sense of responsibility than some parents. Teachers are trained and selected, but parents are not. Anyone can be a parent. No matter when and where, the teacher will be consistent.
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According to ancient etiquette, a teacher is a lifelong teacher and father. As a teacher, he has the same right to restrain students as his father. The ancients had high expectations for their proteges. Once a child was handed over to a teacher for discipline, parents basically could not participate.
Due to the evolution of modern social civilization, the relationship between teachers and students is not as close as before, but more of a teaching role, and then parents often need to spend a lot of energy to help discipline their children, which brings great pressure to parents.
In addition, parents now love their children more. Most families feel that their children are too young to be wronged outside. Even if you make mistakes, you can only learn by yourself, and teachers have no right to participate. As a result, conflicts between parents and schools often appear in news reports, and the final outcome of such incidents is both lose-lose, which leads to teachers shirking all the responsibilities that can be shirked for the discipline of their children, which is contradictory to parents' desire to let their children receive a good education. So it will lead to some problems between home and school, which will be incompatible.
To sum up, parents nowadays don't really regard teachers as guides for their children, and teachers can't really treat students as students. Then it led to the intensification of contradictions.
Education is a social problem, and there are also various problems. The main reason for the above problems is that parents, schools, teachers and society are out of sync on some issues with different frequencies. This "out of sync" is as follows:
1. Students' personality pursuit and teachers' educational methods. There is a contradiction between the individualized needs of students' growth and the simplicity and rudeness of some teachers. This contradiction leads to the tension between teachers and students, and even escalates to the contradiction between home and school.
2. The pressure of entering a higher school and the current situation of lagging education. There is a huge contradiction between the huge pressure of kindergartens, primary schools, junior high schools and senior high schools and the backward educational development status quo. Faced with this kind of pressure, students, parents and schools are all anxious. The contradiction between parents' higher requirements and educational reality can easily be transformed into the contradiction between home and school.
3. Parents' expectation and educational inaction. Many parents do nothing, blaming their children's success entirely on the school, and think that education is entirely the responsibility of school teachers. In fact, parents are the lifelong teachers of children. The stronger this desire for success is, the more prominent the contradiction with school teachers will be.
4. Social expectation and teachers' helplessness. The society has high expectations for education, but the teachers are helpless. This reality further aggravates disharmony and contradiction.
5. Some teachers' behaviors and the sanctity of teachers' profession. Indeed, some teachers' immoral behaviors are often reported by the media, but this does not affect the sanctity of teachers' profession. Seeing only a few phenomena is easy to arouse resentment against the whole teacher group and bury the root of contradictions.
In a word, this kind of different frequency and unsynchronization is inevitable in the process of educational development. But we should also see that education has been improving. I believe that the contradiction between parents and schools is temporary and superficial. Because our goals are the same-
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According to ancient etiquette, a teacher is a lifelong teacher and father. As a teacher, he has the same right to restrain students as his father. The ancients had high expectations for their proteges. Once a child was handed over to a teacher for discipline, parents basically could not participate.
Due to the evolution of modern social civilization, the relationship between teachers and students is not as close as before, but more of a teaching role, and then parents often need to spend a lot of energy to help discipline their children, which brings great pressure to parents.
In addition, parents now love their children more. Most families feel that their children are too young to be wronged outside. Even if you make mistakes, you can only learn by yourself, and teachers have no right to participate. As a result, conflicts between parents and schools often appear in news reports, and the final outcome of such incidents is both lose-lose, which leads to teachers shirking all the responsibilities that can be shirked for the discipline of their children, which is contradictory to parents' desire to let their children receive a good education. So it will lead to some problems between home and school, which will be incompatible.
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People's growth is inseparable from the education of family, school and society. From the school's point of view, the family is more likely to stand on the United front with the school, so the family has always been a force that school education can rely on. Only when schools and families are consistent in educational concepts and behaviors can children get better development.
So why is the relationship between home and school outstanding?
First of all, the current home-school relationship is experiencing a crisis of trust.
Second, in recent years, the campus news reported by the media has gradually disintegrated the image of teachers and played a role in undermining the trust relationship between home and school.
Secondly, at present, parents are more and more willing to participate in school management and supervision, and the requirements for transparency of school management are getting higher and higher.
Thirdly, the rapid spread of information in the Internet era has put forward higher requirements for the emergency handling capacity of schools.
We can't help but say that this phenomenon is related to the excessive performance and the fan ignition of bad media.
Because of the disharmony between teachers, communication and cooperation. Everyone should get along on an equal footing and win-win. The real problem is a pile of high-ranking garbage slag, Ma Yun, female Scorpio dog of Warcraft,