Bai Jiaxuan's view of father and son includes two aspects. First of all, he
It's strict father. In the traditional society of China, the social role of parents.
No, they are called "strict father's loving mother".
Kindness is related to motherhood,
It is emotional and often associated with "love", which is called "kindness".
This feeling
Is dominant. Speaking of kindness,
People naturally think of their mothers.
Honey, think about love. The content of "strict" is more complicated, and it should be
It contains the element of "love", but this "love" is ethical.
I am a priest and my father is a child. "
"A father must alienate his children to conform to.
Etiquette or etiquette ",
[1] Bai Jiaxuan did this to Xiao Wen. He is right.
A son's "love" is no less than that of any father or even mother.
Our "love" for children,
He "likes these two sons too much",
often
I couldn't help staring at the protruding face of that organ,
then
According to the standard of "strict father" in the traditional sense, don't show emotions.
Stop at the ceremony,
So he can only watch it when the child is not paying attention.
They can't say "love words" or "show love".
This shows that in Bai Jiaxuan, history and culture have already released him.
In the ethics of "monarch, minister, father, son and son", he can't
Easy, you don't know.
So, what does he want from "Zi"? That is "filial piety".
Filial piety is the core of China's traditional ethics. The appearance of "filial piety" originated from China.
The traditional patriarchal clan system of agricultural civilization in China is based on families and clans.
, as the core. Bai Jiaxuan strictly adopts the standard of "filial piety" to his son's filial piety.
To standardize the requirements, in fact, with this family, the family-oriented thinking is split.
Of course, inevitably, there are some social and cultural heritages objectively.
Make love. Filial piety is the eldest son of the White House, and it is natural that he should inherit his father Bai Jiaxuan.
"career",
That is, the social role and land of feudal parents and patriarchal chiefs
A little. Therefore, Bai Jiaxuan devoted himself to the education and cultivation of filial piety.
He always lost no time in educating his son, "For the sake of
As soon as possible, he should have a calculation as the future owner of this quadrangle.
And independent personality. He explained to his son by candlelight late at night that "farming and reading are family heirlooms".
Plaques, words and deeds, and good intentions. Filial piety is also very filial, very
Obedient, step by step, take the road that Bai Jiaxuan said. He reads.
Four books and five classics, accepting "farming and reading",
Marry and have children for the benefit of the family,
Everything you should do to be an heir to a ancestral hall chief. In that way
However, he doesn't understand why he did it, and he can't clearly realize it.
Realize that all this has something to do with yourself. He just did what he wanted to do.
Things, their own nature and character are covered up by everyday bits and pieces.