Children's educational experience 1. Family education should start with self-education.
Parents like reading books and forget their work, which will leave a deep impression on their children and exert a subtle influence on her. You can't just talk about children's learning. Parents must do what their children are asked to do first. Nowadays, there are many ways for children to contact information, and the amount of information is also very large. Sometimes the questions they ask will inevitably confuse adults. It is impossible for adults not to study, so we often buy books to read. When you read a book, the children will naturally look beside you. Sometimes, when you take your children out for sports, you often encounter some common sense problems. Whether a child asks a question or you ask a child, you should take what she doesn't know seriously and answer it as perfectly as possible, which can both entertain and satisfy the child's curiosity, killing two birds with one stone. We ask our children to do things seriously. After the child finishes her homework, we will check it for her. If she finds her handwriting sloppy or wrong, we will ask her to erase it and rewrite it. Sometimes, she can't bear to part with it, but she can't be soft-hearted. She must remember that if she doesn't do it well the first time, she should make more efforts. Ask her to do everything carefully and do her best.
Second, you can't like everything too much, but you can't let it go.
Nowadays, parents know that they can't spoil their children too much, and they can't give them whatever they want to meet their requirements. This makes it easy for children to restrain themselves in behavior, which eventually leads to poor self-control, lack of self-motivation, and lack of courage and perseverance to overcome difficulties. Qiqi likes listening to stories and reading books at home. Since learning Pinyin at school, we have bought her a story book and a riddle book with Pinyin. We used to worry that she couldn't understand the content alone, so as long as she didn't want to spell, she immediately picked up the book and told her. Later, in a conversation with the teacher, we learned to let her spell by herself, which can improve her spelling ability and increase her literacy. When we got home, we stopped reading and listened to her, but let her read and listen to us. At first, she worked hard and was afraid of difficulties. It's just that she worked hard for a period of time, so she didn't want to play, and even lost interest in reading. Her father and I will always be with her. When we are in trouble and can't spell it out, we will spell it out for her one by one. When we spell out a difficult place, we will praise and encourage her in time and increase her confidence. In this way, slowly, she likes to fight by herself, and she wants to show it when she encounters difficulties, get our praise, and tell us: Mom and Dad don't matter, don't worry, I can fight no matter how hard it is, I'm not afraid! ? Watching her progress bit by bit and learning to overcome difficulties by herself, I feel happy and proud for her from the bottom of my heart. Qiqi likes to buy plush toys and books. Although there are many toys and books at home, I will give her some requirements as long as she sees something she particularly likes. As long as she meets my requirements, I will buy it back for her, which can stimulate her interest in learning and get rid of some bad habits. I asked Qiqi to tidy up her schoolbag. After she goes to bed, I'll check to see if it's neat. Are the school supplies complete? If not, I will put it in for her, but afterwards I will remind her to pay more attention and be careful. As the child grows up, we will let her do some small things in life. Sometimes she will be asked to help adults do something within her power. We want her to understand that she should not only study well, but also learn to live and care for everyone.
Third, the expectation should not be too high, but it should be strict, carry forward the advantages and correct the shortcomings.
Every parent wants their children to succeed, and we also have this mentality. We won't ask her to score 100 or anything, and we won't put too much pressure on her study, but we will ask her to do her best. As long as she tries her best, her parents won't blame her. Usually, the first thing we ask our children to go home should be to finish their homework and try to develop the habit of thinking independently and doing it independently. If this is not done well, we will severely criticize her after work. Qiqi used to do everything in a leisurely way. It takes a lot of time to get up, eat and do homework repeatedly. In order to improve her work efficiency, we usually ask her to set a time for herself and finish it on time or ahead of schedule, and we will also give some praise and rewards. Through this exercise, her work efficiency has been improved, and at the same time she knows how to arrange her study and life time reasonably, and strive to do everything well as soon as possible, and she has the spirit of being brave in everything. Now, Kiki has basically been able to make more accurate arrangements for her study and other aspects in time, and can have time to arrange other activities outside of study. Learning is no longer a heavy burden, but a pleasure. As long as you finish your study tasks early, you can have time to do what you like.
We know that Kiki is fine at home, but she is timid at school, afraid of teachers and not good at interacting with children. When teachers ask questions in class, they seldom raise their hands to answer them. Even if I answer the teacher's question occasionally, my voice is very small. At home, we often encourage her to raise her hand to answer questions in class, even if the teacher never calls you. As long as you raise your hand, you will learn what the teacher said. If the teacher calls, you can say it out loud, even if it's wrong. The teacher will tell you the correct answer, so that you will remember it better than others and won't make mistakes in the future. She is also encouraged to play with her classmates after class and make more good friends. If we have time, we will often ask the teacher about the children's performance at school. Every time the children make progress, we are very excited and cooperate with the teachers to give them encouragement and confidence. Generally speaking, we don't blame for saying the wrong thing, and always encourage children to express their opinions boldly. At home, create a harmonious and democratic family atmosphere, truly treat children as members of the family, and give them greater freedom and democratic environment. Take every opportunity to encourage children to express their opinions freely and boldly put forward various questions and ideas. School education, especially the encouragement and training of teachers, has increased children's confidence. Now, we gradually find that Qiqi has made progress in this respect. She dares to ask us questions and answer our questions. In her spare time, she will also talk to us about some interesting things about the school.
The experience of children's education should first cultivate good living habits.
Self-care ability mainly includes taking off clothes, shoes and socks, sorting clothes, eating independently, washing face and buttocks. Cultivating children's self-care ability is helpful to cultivate their sense of responsibility, self-confidence and ability to deal with problems, and improve their ability to adapt to the new environment.
Secondly, we should cultivate good study habits.
I have attached great importance to the cultivation of children's study habits since their first grade. The first thing to do when I come home from school every day is to do my homework, and I have been with my children since the beginning. Let's check together after the child finishes writing. Now children can finish their homework independently, but they are still a little careless.
Secondly, pay attention to the cultivation of children's character.
In my opinion, in order to make children become talents, we must first become adults. I have a happy and harmonious family, and my children have grandfathers. My grandmother taught my children to help the elderly before eating and to be filial to them. Give your seat to the old man when you take the bus.
When treating children, our parents should set an example. I think our parents should straighten their seats. We can't stand on top of each other and let our children listen to you. We should be children's good friends. Secondly, we should always get along with children with a positive attitude and a happy mood. No matter how many unhappy things we have, we can't vent them on our children and let them feel that their parents are smiling all the time. We hope our children can grow up healthily and happily!
Children's educational experience 1. Pay attention to ideological and moral education and improve children's fine tradition of respecting the elderly and loving the young.
A child's growth is not only about learning, but only the overall improvement of comprehensive quality is the guarantee to cope with the increasingly fierce social competition in the future. Therefore, since children are sensible, we deliberately teach them to be tolerant, polite and judge right and wrong about some simple things. From kindergarten, children are taught to love the collective, respect teachers, unite with classmates and abide by rules and regulations. So children are very disciplined and obedient students at school. At the same time, we often remind him to be a polite, labor-loving and caring child, and take the initiative to say hello to teachers and classmates. I remember once a child's grandmother came home, and her daughter took out her favorite chocolate and gave it to everyone. Maybe old people love children very much. At that time, chocolate was only enough for the whole family, so her grandmother said, Grandma won't eat it, but save it for MengMeng next time. ? I criticized my mother's point of view at that time. If the child gives you something to eat, you must eat it. If you don't get into the habit, she thinks you won't eat anyway, and you won't know how to be filial to the elderly when you are old.
Second, give full play to the exemplary role of parents to help children develop good habits.
Children are very imitative, and many characters and practices are learned and imitated from their parents. Parents are the first teachers of the children. From birth to school, even to middle school, it is the parents who may be in contact with the children the most. They are always imitating their parents' words and deeds. When the child was four years old, we went downtown by bus together. My wife and I took two seats. I was holding the baby, and then an older man came over. Because we sat in the back, the old man stood in front, and I held my daughter, so I didn't give up my seat. But my daughter's words deeply touched me. She said, Dad, why don't you give your seat to Grandpa? Didn't you say you would give up your seat when you saw an older person? I was really happy with my daughter's director. So I said to my daughter: You let your mother hug you. Dad didn't see it just now. Now give your seat to Grandpa! ?
Third, pay attention to children's concentration and develop a good habit of being serious and responsible.
Most of them are only children now. With the improvement of living conditions, children are in an absolute central position in the family. When my child was young, I also bought many toys for her, but the child still loves all her toys, because every toy reflects the parents' love for their daughter. She often takes it out to see which one is bought by her father and which one is bought by her mother. Clean it up and put it back after each reading. Once at grandma's house, grandma picked a lot of tender beans and peeled them to make porridge. So, my daughter peeled beans with her mother, and her mother only peeled a little and went to the neighbor's house. As a result, my daughter peeled them all herself. I held my daughter in my arms and praised her. I must finish what I have done. This is a good boy.
Fourth, cultivate children's sense of independence.
We often see reports that some college students can't take care of themselves and so on. All these remind us that children can't be independent and will always grow up. In order to give children independence, I also got a cruel title. It was when children just learned to walk. Every time I fall, I let my daughter get up by herself, and then I told her that she must get up by herself. Now I can help you, but mom and dad are not around. Who will help you? Later, I watched my daughter fall to the ground on her knees, bleeding and telling me with tears. Dad, I will be careful when I walk next time! ? After listening to my daughter's words, I was both distressed and gratified.
Fifth, learn to communicate with children and be their friends.
The most important thing to communicate with children is equality, and everyone longs for respect. Children are no exception. In the process of learning, children will encounter some problems more or less. When she asks you for help or is ready to give up, try not to criticize and complain about the child. Trust your child at all times, give her time, encourage her and encourage her to believe that she has the ability to overcome difficulties. We help her analyze the reasons, find out the problems, inspire and guide her from the side, stimulate her desire to solve the problems, and enjoy the joy after solving the problems with her. I always believe that if we cheat children once now, they will cheat you a hundred times in the future. Listen carefully to your child's different opinions and don't interrupt at will. Don't tell the child what you think until she has finished. Be sure to stand on an equal footing, don't just make condescending demands and give orders, or you will never know the true thoughts and reality of your child again.