18 parents' suggestions on starting school for lower grade pupils.

The lower grade of primary school is the initial stage of nine-year compulsory education. Parents must help their children develop good study and living habits and lay a solid foundation for future study.

1, be sure to ensure the child's sleep time.

Adequate sleep is very important for both adults and children, and it is the basis for a person to work and study energetically. Pupils sleep about 10 hours a day, so parents should arrange for their children to sleep before 10 at night. Only when you get enough sleep can you have enough energy to study.

2, breakfast should not only be full, but also eat well.

Some parents skip breakfast in the morning and rush to work after getting up, which is unscientific. Not eating breakfast for a long time will not only affect their work, but also affect their health. If children don't eat breakfast, they often appear listless or fidgety after the second class. Because of hunger, I often overeat at noon. Therefore, children must eat enough for breakfast, and if possible, they should change their patterns to let them eat well.

3. Ensure children's daily drinking water.

Pupils are lively and active, and their physical energy consumption is high. Ensuring children's drinking water is directly related to their health. Parents should remind their children to drink water, and it is best to bring their own cups when going to school, at least one cup in the morning, afternoon and evening.

4. Guide children to develop the good habit of resting on time.

After school, it is much more important to rest on time than to rest at home. Because the school is dominated by group activities, there are unified arrangements for when to start classes and when to finish classes. If there is no concept of time, it will affect the unified action. Therefore, parents should understand the school schedule, urge their children to go to school on time or finish the homework assigned by the teacher, and let them gradually establish the concept of time.

5. Teach children to use less rubber

The function of an eraser is to erase and correct mistakes after writing. It should be said that there is nothing wrong with using an eraser. But why educate children to use less rubber? The reason is that students in the lower grades of primary school have just entered the learning stage, and using rubber less is to cultivate children's serious and careful habits. From this point of view, the significance of using less rubber is far greater than using rubber. Some schools clearly stipulate "no eraser" in order to cultivate students' seriousness and carefulness.

6. Intentionally cultivate children's self-care ability

After a child goes to school, it means that he will be independent in many things, such as going to and from school on time, attending classes on time, doing homework on time, participating in activities on time, sorting out his school supplies, and communicating with children. In these things, parents can help, but they should never replace them. Too spoiled, everything has been replaced by parents. On the surface, it is love, but in fact it is harm. Some parents arrange schoolbags instead of their children, some parents pick up schoolbags when their children are young, and some parents even take the place of peeling eggs, which is very harmful. True love is to cultivate children's self-care ability, not only in study, but also in life, which is beneficial to children's life.

7. Don't dress up in comparison.

Dressing is simple and practical, because they are still young, and complicated dressing will cause them a burden. At the same time, parents should never compare with each other. Comparing brands and prices is meaningless and not conducive to children's growth.

8. Pay attention to cultivating children's expressive ability.

Expressing your wishes is an important ability to communicate with each other and show yourself. It is very important for children to study now or work in the future. In cultivating children's expressive ability, parents should first encourage their children to dare to speak, even if they are wrong. Dare to say is the first level of expression ability. The second is to guide the children to speak, which is the basic requirement of expression ability, that is, to express their wishes according to the children's ideas and be true and credible.

9. Tell the child to go to the toilet when it is time to go to the toilet.

Students often forget to go to the toilet because of playing, or they would rather hold their urine than go to the toilet for fear of being criticized. Holding your urine will have an impact on your child's health. Parents should tell their children that they must go to the toilet when going to the toilet. I believe the teacher will understand.

10, children must see a doctor first if they are sick.

Because students are still young, their resistance is still weak, and their environment and life have changed a lot, so they often have some physical discomfort. Parents should never underestimate this situation. If they are very uncomfortable, they must see a doctor first. Those who need rest should follow the doctor's advice and have a proper rest. Never aggravate their illness for fear of missing classes.

1 1, pay attention to protect children's eyesight.

After school, it means spending more and more time with your eyes. How to protect children's eyesight?

First, when reading a book, the light must be sufficient, and don't read a book in dim conditions;

Second, when reading a book, the posture must be correct, the sitting posture should be correct, and the distance between the eyes and the book is about one foot (30 cm). Don't read in bed;

Third, the time spent watching TV and surfing the internet should not be too long, and it is best to control it for about an hour;

Fourth, it is also beneficial to eye health to insist on and do eye exercises seriously, or close your eyes after a period of time, or stand in the distance;

Fifth, when doing homework, the body should sit up straight and tell the children to remember a formula: "one foot one inch one punch", that is, the distance from the eyes to the exercise book is one foot, the fingertip holding the pen is one inch away from the nib, and the distance from the chest to the table is one punch.

12, watch TV selectively

It is not advisable to watch TV without restraint for fear of affecting your study. The correct way is to watch TV selectively, for example, according to the characteristics of first-grade children, let them watch children's programs, animation programs, animal world, man and nature. It is of great benefit to increase their knowledge and broaden their horizons. But each viewing time should not be too long, so as not to hurt your eyes.

13, give children the necessary guidance in learning.

Strictly speaking, especially in the first grade, students can't learn, and they are in the initial stage of learning. It is necessary for parents to give guidance. However, the following points should be noted in the guide:

(1) Guide not to become a supervisor, let alone sit next to the children and chatter endlessly, which not only affects learning, but also easily makes the children rebellious;

Guidance should not be a substitute. Some parents directly tell the answers to homework that their children can't do. After a long time, it will breed children's dependence thoughts;

3 guidance is to tell the method, tell the child why to think, why to find the answer and the solution to the problem;

(4) Guidance is encouragement, encouraging children not only to do right, but also to do fast to cope with various exams.

14, pay attention to safety awareness.

Children in grade one are the most vulnerable in the following aspects:

(1) Crowding, squeezing, falling or even trampling when entering and leaving the classroom and going up and down the stairs;

(2) Out of curiosity, contact the power switch gate;

③ Do not pay attention to vehicles when crossing the road;

4 onlookers quarrel and fight;

5 contact with strangers;

6. Climbing, playing with water, playing with fire and other risky behaviors. Most importantly, parents should tell their children what to do and what not to do.

15, encourage children to communicate more and be able to communicate.

Communication is the basic need of human beings, and communication is the basic condition for survival. Communication is very important for both adults and children. Parents will communicate in the process of encouraging their children to communicate more, especially in the following three aspects:

First, educating children to respect others is the premise of communication. Only by respecting others can we gain their respect and have a basis for communication.

Second, educate children to express their ideas boldly when interacting with others, so that people can understand their ideas, and at the same time listen to others' opinions with an open mind and improve themselves in communication;

Third, educate children to be honest, say what they think and do what they say, so that others can feel honest and credible.

16, pay attention to children's mental health

People's health includes two aspects, one is the health of various organs, and the other is mental health, that is, no matter what happens, the mentality is calm and normal, and you can deal with it calmly. Students in the first grade of primary school have little life experience, especially when they encounter setbacks, they will have a variety of psychological reactions, such as impatience, excessive tension, self-abandonment, rebellion and contradiction, and so on. In the face of these phenomena, parents should ask about the situation in good faith, help their children release psychological pressure according to the reasons, and free them from incomprehension and depression. At this time, comfort and guidance are more important than anything else. Never complain about others, adding trouble to children's hearts will only aggravate their psychological pressure.

17, encourage children and teachers to communicate more.

For various reasons, most students, especially first-grade pupils, are afraid to communicate directly with teachers, which is a problem that schools and parents should try to solve. Parents should encourage their children to dare to communicate with teachers and tell them their ideas, especially where they don't understand in class. I believe the teacher will help the children solve their difficulties. At the same time, it is important to tell children to understand the teacher's hard work, respect the teacher's work and obey the teacher's arrangement. Harmonious teacher-student relationship is an important factor to ensure the healthy growth of children.

18, pay attention to maintaining the prestige of teachers.

Teachers are sacred in the eyes of students, especially freshmen. Listening to teachers is even better than listening to parents. Sometimes parents can not listen, but the teacher is absolutely obedient. It should be said that this is correct and normal. However, in the following two cases, different reactions may occur.

First, when students are criticized by teachers for violating discipline and the methods of criticism are not understood and accepted by students, children will be dissatisfied, feel depressed and even complain and resent the teachers.

Second, when students see that some teachers' behaviors are inappropriate, such as indifferent expression, unfair treatment, bad temper, disciplining people, punishing people and so on. They will also have doubts about the teacher and dilute the lofty image of the teacher in the eyes of children. In this case, parents should not simply deny teachers or simply suppress children, but should calmly analyze and treat them properly. Tell your child that making mistakes is your own business and you should correct it yourself. They shouldn't blame their teachers for their improper methods, which is not good for themselves. It is the teacher's business that the method is not suitable. I believe that teachers will learn in practice and improve in practice. As for some improper behaviors of teachers, tell children that teachers are human beings, with emotions and worldly desires. You can't think others are dirty just because there are black spots.

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