Adult's evaluation is very important for children to have confidence. In early childhood, adults trust and respect children and admit that children often say "you are great". Children will see their own advantages, affirm their progress and think they are really great. On the contrary, children are often denied, despised and doubted by adults, and often hear the evaluation of "you are stupid, you can't, you can't". Children will also deny themselves and doubt their abilities, thus creating a sense of inferiority.

Adults must pay attention to their own evaluation of children, be proud of their own advantages, and don't regret their own shortcomings. We should give priority to positive encouragement, be good at finding the bright spots in children, and don't blindly compare our children with other children, but compare our past and present, so that children can know that they have grown and progressed, thus generating corresponding self-confidence psychology. In particular, we should give more care and encouragement to children with developmental retardation, let them know that everyone has strengths, and let these children gradually establish a correct evaluation of themselves.

3. Create opportunities to cultivate children's self-confidence in practice.

Give him some tasks that he is sure to complete, such as setting the bowl, serving rice, getting glasses for grandpa, and getting newspapers from the mailbox. Praise him if he does it. Sometimes I help him do some difficult things, such as washing handkerchiefs, shining shoes, sorting toys on the shelves, etc. And I will give her great praise and build her self-confidence. Get up in the morning, go to bed at night, let him put on clothes and exercise his independence. You should know that self-confidence and independence should start from bit by bit, not abstract.

4. Cultivate children's self-confidence through encouragement.

Encouragement is the most important aspect of cultivating children. Every child needs constant encouragement, just as plants need sunshine and rain. Children can't grow up healthily without encouragement. But we often despise the encouragement to children and often forget it. Many people mistakenly believe that children need education and continuous education, while education is more about indoctrination and discipline.

5. Let children gain confidence from the joy of success.

The condition of cultivating children's self-confidence is to let children get successful experiences, and too many failed experiences often make children doubt their abilities. Therefore, teachers and parents should put forward tasks and requirements suitable for children's level according to their development characteristics and individual differences, and set a suitable goal for children to accomplish through hard work. They also need to learn one thing successfully to gain self-confidence. Besides, they should pay special attention to children who lack self-confidence.