1. As long as you are a police parent, your child is an "underground party". The simpler and rougher your education is, the more mistakes and lies your children will have.
2. Taking test scores as the only criterion for evaluating children, parents and teachers have become blind. Only by measuring people with multiple rulers can we really find out where the children's strengths are.
3. Online games are a double-edged sword. Proper control is an angel, and improper control is a devil. The fundamental measure to prevent children's internet addiction is to replace the failed experience with successful experience and the monotonous life with rich life.
4. Although we are under the same roof, it may be a suitable choice to write a heart-to-heart and equal exchange of views to our children when they are in conflict or refuse to talk to you.
5, don't deliberately create adversity, and don't easily reach out to children in adversity. Parents should not deprive their children of the right to grow up in failure.
6. The secret of successful education is to set a lower goal first, so that children can experience the happiness of success, and then pursue higher goals. Letting children experience success repeatedly will give them confidence in success.
7. On the same thing, parents' behaviors and attitudes should be consistent, and the promised things should be fulfilled. Keeping faith with children is the basic morality of parents.
8. All those plans that advocate mass production of "prodigies" are deceptive plans aimed at making money. Children are very different, and there are various ways to grow up. Any knowledge and behavior that ignores children's personality differences is against the laws of science.
9. Parents should not arrange their children's time with their own will, which will deprive them of their time freedom and spiritual freedom. People need a lot of free time to grow up. Children should be allowed to watch, listen, think and play by themselves.
10. If parents and teachers are too tolerant of the problems existing in "good children", their weaknesses will become hidden dangers or even "time bombs". Uncritical education is considered as education.
1 1. It is always right to give priority to praise to children, and it is also right to take punishment as a necessary means of education, but punishment is by no means a simple corporal punishment, let alone an insult to personality. The more you punish children, the more you should respect them.
12, parents doing nothing is great. Inaction means not being strong, not acting rashly, or acting according to the law. Countless children who go astray or even die are tragic works of parents who are too successful.
13, for children, it is more important to eat and wear well, and it is more important to play well. Therefore, don't crowd children's daily life with adults' choices, and leave a broad space for children's free development.
14. For parents of primary school students, the most important thing to educate their children is four words: "interest" and "habit". With interest, you have the motivation to grow, and with habits, you have the guarantee of success.
15, let children and parents sleep in separate beds, and more is to cultivate children's sense of growth and make children truly independent. To do this, the key is that parents should overcome their "weaknesses".
16. No matter how rich a family is, its children should not be as rich as nobles, and no matter how poor a family is, its children should not be as poor as beggars.
17, it is not enough to give children pocket money, but it must also be accompanied by financial education. Stay away from the rules when the child asks for pocket money for the first time, otherwise, the child's consumption desire will be like a runaway wild horse.
18, the benefits of exercise are not only a strong body, but also a strong mind. Physical education should be the premise and foundation of all education.
19. Taking children out to travel in a planned way can help children avoid being bookish, and also help them experience the artistic conception in the book and re-understand the ideas in the book.
20. Don't let the child's heart become empty. Every child should have at least 10 excellent people in his heart. Excellent people will continue to give children strength like an engine.