Appreciation means that parents encourage their children's positive behavior and efforts through positive response and praise. This kind of education makes children feel concerned and recognized, and stimulates their self-confidence and enthusiasm. Praise should focus on children's efforts, progress and quality, not just the quality of results. Through appreciation, children will be more self-disciplined and actively pursue better grades and performance.

Disciplinary education refers to taking certain punishment measures to correct children's bad or wrong behaviors. However, disciplinary education should be limited and follow certain principles. First of all, punishment should be proportional to the wrong behavior, reasonable and fair. Secondly, parents should avoid too severe or insulting punishment, so as not to cause psychological and emotional harm to their children. Finally, after the punishment is over, parents should actively communicate and guide their children so that they can understand the cause and effect of the mistake and how to correct it.

In a word, appreciation education and punishment education play an important role in family education. Appreciation can stimulate children's self-motivation and enthusiasm, and punishment can help children understand mistakes and correct behaviors. However, when using these methods, parents need to pay attention to balance and moderation according to their children's situation and personality, and do a good job of communication and guidance.