Many parents think that children will lose their temper when they encounter uncomfortable things, but they don't have to take it too seriously. As long as they divert their attention or order them to stop it by force, when their emotions calm down, they will naturally think that there is no need for communication. But I don't know that after a long time, children will become particularly introverted, do not like to communicate with others, and easily hide themselves.

2. Teach children ways to communicate and express.

Parents should communicate with their children in time, tell them how to communicate with others and how to show their dissatisfaction after encountering something. Although children can't fully understand their parents' language, frequent communication with children will still produce good results.

Don't hit the child.

No matter what the reason, hitting a child will do harm to the child. If you can't help hitting your child, I hope that after parents calm down, they can explain to their children the reasons for their anger, explain and analyze the reasons for their out-of-control behavior, and tell them what kind of specific behavior caused their parents' strong anger. We might as well apologize to our children. After all, we don't want our children to remember their childhood when they grow up, and remember the kick their parents kicked hard.

4. Use cold treatment skillfully

Don't think that the child is only interested in losing his temper, in fact, he is secretly observing your reaction. In this case, you must be "mighty and unyielding" and take the child to a room when he loses his temper, be alone with him and watch him cry. When he is tired of crying, make a pot of hot water, wipe the child's face, let his mood slowly stabilize and then reason with the child.

Parents should set an example and be role models for their children.

If parents want to cultivate their children to have a good temper, they should first pay attention to their own behavior. Parents should educate their children to set an example, and they should not lose their temper and swear in front of their children at will, otherwise they will set a bad example for their children, who like to imitate. If parents often lose their temper, children will also lose their temper.