Children's behavior often lacks discretion and strength, and if left unchecked, it is likely to lead to great disaster. Therefore, after parents find out, they should stop the child's barbaric behavior at the first time, so as not to cause him tragedy.

2. Find out why.

No matter whether the child is beaten or not, parents should carefully find out the reasons and deal with them separately. Don't argue with children when they start working. It is also possible that the child was bullied by others before changing hands.

3. Be brave in apologizing for doing something wrong.

When you first know that your child is wrong, you should educate your child to bravely bear the mistake, apologize to others and strive for understanding. Of course, parents should not use high-pressure policies to force their children to apologize. Instead, bend down, patiently do ideological work with your child, let him truly realize his mistake, and then sincerely apologize. The effect is better!

Parents should keep calm.

Parents must keep calm, even if their children are bullied, don't attack them savagely. Because the child is watching, what you do at this time will affect his behavior. Therefore, parents should set an example and let their children become rational, calm and good at thinking.

Teach children how to protect themselves in case of conflict and ask for help.

If children want to learn to protect themselves, they must cultivate kung fu in every detail of daily life. Exercise strong physique, keen judgment, honest and confident personality. Every child should learn to make friends. No matter how naughty his classmates are, you should think twice about the shock of you and your friends before starting a fight with you. If it still can't be solved, there is only one last step, asking teachers and parents for help.

"Fighting seems like a small problem, but it affects the growth of children's character. Educated parents certainly don't want their children to be' wolves', nor can they bear to be' sheep' and lose their ability to protect themselves. " The key is to establish children's awareness of self-protection and guide them to find their own solutions. In the final analysis, one day, children have to face the world independently, a complex world full of conflicts and disputes, and it is definitely not the best way for us to become too protective.

In fact, fighting is a child's nature, and it is natural to avoid conflicts and disputes with friends. In the face of fighting between children, our parents should be careful not to judge children's behavior at will, but to explore the causes of children's fighting and find a solution to the problem.