1 Create an equal and harmonious family relationship
In America, parents have the responsibility to raise their children. But their relationship is more equal. Children need to respect their parents, and parents should respect their children. They can call their parents by their names at will, just like calling their friends. Without the consent of the child, parents will not step into the child's private space, let alone involve things that belong to the child's privacy, such as diaries and letters. American parents will respect their children's opinions when they encounter things. Children can also participate in the discussion and voting of family decision-making plans and other matters. On the other hand, China's parents think their children are their private property. Every salary of the children must be decided by them. I think it's my duty to them. Children in China must obey their parents' arrangement. They are not independent individuals in front of their parents, they do not belong to themselves. You can't have equal communication and understanding with your parents at home. This kind of family education will make many children in China feel depressed and affect their growth.
America has the responsibility of parents to their children. But their relationship is more equal. Children should respect their parents. But parents also show respect for their children and can call their parents by their first names. Like their friend's phone. Parents are not allowed to enter the child's subspace without the child's consent. Don't involve the child's diary, it belongs to the privacy of communication, that kind of thing. When things happen in America, parents will respect their children's ideas. Children can also participate in family decision-making and discussion of things. China's parents think that their children belong to their private property. Every child should be decided by their operation. I feel sorry for their negative responsibility. All children in China must obey their parents' arrangement. In front of their parents, they are not an individual who does not belong to them. You can't have equal communication and understanding with your parents at home. The kind of family education that will make many children in China feel depressed will affect their growth.
2. Cultivate children's sense of independence
2. Cultivate children's sense of independence
American families attach great importance to the cultivation of children's independence. Parents cultivate their children's independence, self-confidence and exploration spirit from an early age. For example, children sleep in small beds since childhood, and when they are older, they have separate houses. In children's daily affairs. Parents just help their children do things that they couldn't do at that time. Try to let children do everything they can. /kloc-More than 0/8 teenagers mostly earn their own money to study. Although parents in China attach great importance to children's education now, the cultivation of children's independent consciousness is still at the slogan stage because of the long-term lack of scientific educational experience or some wrong and outdated educational concepts in China. Especially now, the only child is the sun at home, and his independence is very poor.
American families attach great importance to the independence of children's education. Parents and children are independent, confident and exploratory. For example, a child sleeps in a slightly larger cot and walks through a house alone. In children's daily affairs. Parents help their children to do things that they are too old to do. What children can do is done by children themselves as much as possible. /kloc-Teenagers who have been studying for more than 0/8 years earn money. Although parents in China have attached great importance to their children's education, for a long time, parents in China have lacked scientific educational experience or because of some wrong old-fashioned educational concepts, and they still stay in the stage of slogan-style cultivation of children's independent consciousness. Especially now, this child has changed one for Sun at home, eating ready-made food and clothing to make a living, and this child's independent ability is very poor.