The problem in the family now is that parents have different ideas when raising their children. The solution: parents divorce, which sounds a bit strange. Should the solution aim at reducing the differences between the two, or reach a consensus to some extent?

I believe this problem is often encountered by couples, and they can't reach a consensus on a certain issue. Everyone thinks they are right, and the other person is particularly retarded, and then they quarrel and finally don't know how to get divorced. Will many divorced couples look back after getting divorce certificates and can't remember why they divorced at that time? Maybe everyone will think that not getting divorced all day is "too different", which is very timid and boring, but the problem we have to solve is how to solve the difference! It is difficult for us to find a person who thinks exactly the same as ourselves. We can't marry anyone. Are there differences or divorces?

So how to solve it?

1.？ Calm down, calm down, calm down.

2.？ Say what you think, remember, just say your own thoughts, don't judge each other's, don't compare and then say your own advantages. Because when you say it, the other party won't listen, and then they start to pinch each other, and then the meeting will get farther and farther away from the subject. Talk about your feelings, don't judge, judge, judge.

3.？ Rational comparison of the positive and negative aspects that both sides' ideas may bring, brainstorming together, you will find that men's brains are really different from women's. What they think may be strange to you, or you may admire him for thinking of many aspects that you have never thought of.

4.？ Discuss the final solution together, take responsibility together and respect each other. Everyone is a contributor to this family, which also avoids mutual accountability for parenting problems in the future.