If parents find that their children do have introverted problems since childhood, they must communicate with them as soon as possible. Although the child is very young, he can still understand some truth. In the process of communicating with him, you can learn in detail what causes the child to be introverted. For example, he will be particularly afraid of communicating with people at school. What is the specific reason why she is afraid? Only by knowing the specific reasons can we help him overcome these difficulties.

We worked hard for the child, but in the end he didn't get good grades. "If we only ask the child questions every time instead of pointing out his shortcomings, he may work harder and improve his problems to some extent, but no one will like to be blamed." Parents must create a condition for their children to relax and face failure.

Parents should not be too strict. When he is frustrated, he often feels that he has done something wrong and is even more difficult to be confident. Because he doesn't think he can't do it, and he doesn't want others to be disappointed in him, it's easy to lose confidence. Children's psychological endurance is relatively fragile. If they don't get enough encouragement and support when they encounter setbacks, their failure psychology will tend to be more and more depressed and easy to feel inferior.

If you repeatedly emphasize and urge your child to learn, but you don't get any "reward" or "encouragement", your child is likely to become very difficult to be confident because he can't get the affirmation of his parents. Therefore, parents should care about their children's words and deeds, give them enough encouragement and encourage them to become confident. Parents should try not to stop their children's practices too severely, because once parents are too strict, their children's self-esteem and self-confidence will be frustrated and they will not believe that they can finish it.

Timely communication says that parents are the best teachers for children, and the development of children's personality is greatly influenced by parents. However, how to make children learn with self-esteem and self-confidence is the key to the solution. Only parents encourage their children to try and study hard is the best way of education. So, what should parents do to really help their children build self-confidence? Parents should treat their children with loving eyes instead of blaming them.